If we use escorts does that mean we do not love our wives or girlfriends?

[Heidi Baby]

If a man really loved his other half he wouldn't be seeing escorts.

I do not agree with U! Sometimes ur relationship just get bored!!!Sometimes U need something new!This dont mean u dont love ur partner!I think......if u "use" escort every week..... THIS MEAN U DONT LOVE UR PARTNER!!!!!

[Heidi Baby]

Indeed. I always shower before leaving to see an escort and will always shower upon arrival as requested. Herbal essnces...

[Just_joe]

Thank you for that Dionne, I always shower just before I arrive to save time, 30 mins can fly by, an hours a bit longer, this is a sign of the times when you express 'expectation of the norm' I expect what the escort would like best is just good old fashioned sexual intercourse (a good shag) but owo, cim, watersports and other things are definately expected and taken for the norm. No ties is right, if a punter takes a shine to an escort, he probably keeps going to see her until she moves on. I once saw the sme girl 8 times then she disappeared of the face of the earth (probably to get away from me).
The way I feel is that times running out for me and my main priority in life is sex, dirty sex,
Would you believe I never had intercourse before I was married and I'm nearly certain my wife didn't eiither and for 99.5 percent of my marriage I was totally faithful. But one day about 18 months ago I was messing with google and for the devilment typed escorts dublin, and bang I'd never seenanything like it before and became immediately addicted.
But again thank you for your advice.

... similar thing happened me, I was out one night wait a mate who brought me to a city center brothel .. who knew such wonderful things existed - not naive little me!

i was hooked, next day I was on the internet, finding escorts on the corner of every street in dublin... then when i got a phone with the internet .. well, that was the end of me!

[Just_joe]

If your partner was using an escort - younger - more handsome- fitter and better endowed than you - do you think that you would accept that she still loved you ?

or maybe it really is......
Different For Girls

Better endowed then me!!! .. who is this Adonis *L*

I have to admit, Ive had gf's before that I wanted to watch them have sex with other guys, but if they were seeing male escorts behind my back, I'd be gutted - proper devastated.

[Tommy Singh]

I do not agree with U! Sometimes ur relationship just get bored!!!Sometimes U need something new!This dont mean u dont love ur partner!I think......if u "use" escort every week..... THIS MEAN U DONT LOVE UR PARTNER!!!!!

and heres why.True love involves more than just intimacy.When you truely love another ,their feelings become part of you and you do not want to hurt them ever.Thats true love.A shag is only a shag but intimacy is different and intimacy involves sharing your true feelings for another.If this wasnt the case an escort couldnt do her job.

Sorry but if a guy sees escorts behind his wifes back then he obviously dosnt love her enough to understand that this would destroy her feelings (the feeling of not being good enough for him whatever good enough means).Sure ppl would say but how could you get caught but thats not the point at all.

And before you ask i am not married and dont have kids and the main reason why, is i could not devote myself to being as good a husband or father as i could be so i dont bring kids into this world or marry someone when they could have someone else.Having said that i dont punt hardly ever either.A punt to me is a small baby boat.


This will change with time though,
Westside.

[Tommy Singh]

If your partner was using an escort - younger - more handsome- fitter and better endowed than you - do you think that you would accept that she still loved you ?

or maybe it really is......
Different For Girls

very different.

A mans looks,shape,dick size etc are just short term things for women.A guy could ,say be well endowed and she would say wow and beyond that its just another dick.Im not saying women dont get horny or the physical doesnt matter etc but at the end of the day ,women find interesting conversations ,romance ,small little things more turn on than the size of a guys dick etc etc.

Most of the time,men attach to a womans looks.Women attach to a guys mind.Women look at the overall picture more.

They love shoes too
Westside.

[rover]

If your partner was using an escort - younger - more handsome- fitter and better endowed than you - do you think that you would accept that she still loved you ?

or maybe it really is......
Different For Girls

No I wouldn't Alec.

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[rover]

Indeed. I always shower before leaving to see an escort and will always shower upon arrival as requested. Herbal essnces...

I would go rusty if I did that and I use Castrol GTX.

[rover]

... similar thing happened me, I was out one night wait a mate who brought me to a city center brothel .. who knew such wonderful things existed - not naive little me!

i was hooked, next day I was on the internet, finding escorts on the corner of every street in dublin... then when i got a phone with the internet .. well, that was the end of me!

I can identify with that exactly, ha I'm getting exhausted trying to reply to everyone.
But thanks.

[rover]

and heres why.True love involves more than just intimacy.When you truely love another ,their feelings become part of you and you do not want to hurt them ever.Thats true love.A shag is only a shag but intimacy is different and intimacy involves sharing your true feelings for another.If this wasnt the case an escort couldnt do her job.

Sorry but if a guy sees escorts behind his wifes back then he obviously dosnt love her enough to understand that this would destroy her feelings (the feeling of not being good enough for him whatever good enough means).Sure ppl would say but how could you get caught but thats not the point at all.

And before you ask i am not married and dont have kids and the main reason why, is i could not devote myself to being as good a husband or father as i could be so i dont bring kids into this world or marry someone when they could have someone else.Having said that i dont punt hardly ever either.A punt to me is a small baby boat.


This will change with time though,
Westside.

That's what I've been trying say all day, that's why admitted to being a rat and hypocrite.