Nervous first-timer seeking advice from experienced guys about escorts on here

[dave028]

The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. - Lao Tzu ..
Remember it is routine for the escort and she will guide you through it. The biggest problem you may have is finding her place. And that is not a joke.
Once inside and alone with her you will be OK.

Getting directions and finding the place is the only part I hate doing.

[shyguy20173]

Thanks so much for this helpful reply (and to everyone who replied) this really helps put me at a bit more ease. I guess I just have to bite the bullet and accept that there's always going to be some risk involved.

[dob]

I don't think that's a helpful suggestion for our friend. I think the op needs some intimacy with a woman and is clearly nervous about this and is just looking for some support

I think this guy should not start seeing escorts. It may ruin his life, as it has mine.

[EIFII]

I think this guy should not start seeing escorts. It may ruin his life, as it has mine.

I understand that from an abstract perspective seeing escorts may not always be the best choice, and you know I have made that point previously on these boards. However no-one has come on here before and said their life is been ruined. Would you like to share your story?

[dob]

I understand that from an abstract perspective seeing escorts may not always be the best choice, and you know I have made that point previously on these boards. However no-one has come on here before and said their life is been ruined. Would you like to share your story?

Ruined may be a bit strong, but certainly in the long run it has not been good on emotional, personal or financial level. It has certainly taken its toll on me in recent times.

I'm just putting the opposing view out there. This guy seems just too nervous about this and it will certain ruin his first appointment.

[shyguy20173]

All: I really seriously, genuinely appreciate everyone's feedback. This has helped me a lot. Especially JAMESCORK, dave028, BillyGreenbush, LetsDoThis, LuckyLu, zilch, Amindimood55, MidlifeCrisis and a few others (as you can probably tell, I'm so green that I haven't figured out where the 'thank you' button is yet lol)

I think I've realised I do want to do this (again, I respect everyone's advice, even when it's telling me to not do this, we're all on different paths, in different situations here) but I just don't think I have the bottle to do it the normal way on the first time out.

I'm thinking that I'll stay in a hotel some night and ring someone to do an outcall to my room and this will be my way of easing myself into it/dipping my toe in, in a way that's less nerve wrecking for me (I am actually a bag of nerves just reading the (helpful!) feedback from the guys saying they were nervous trying to find the places on their first time.

Would anyone be so kind as to private message me what they think would be a good option for a hotel in the city centre of Dublin? (I'm guessing it's not so appropriate to name hotels right here in this thread). I'm sure you're way ahead of me on this but I'm obviously thinking of hotels which are the type where there's going to be plenty of girls nearby who will be happy to do an outcall there AND a place where there won't be much drama for her getting from the street up to the door of my room (e.g. not a place where you need a keycard to use the lift and that type of thing).

I'll stop annoying you guys with questions after this I promise but again I really thank you all, you guys are amazingly friendly and welcoming. Hopefully I'll be reporting back soon, saying that I was getting worked up over nothing

[oldfool]

This question has been asked regularly before so have a look back.
Main advise is to identify a number of well reviewed ladies and carefully read what their favourites are. If u want a specific favourite make sure it's on the list.
Tell the lady when making appointment that it's your first time and your nervous. WE ALL WERE. Don't spend too much time on the phone, it's not necessary. If important ask if a specific favourite is available, don't mention more than one.
Arrive on time not early not late. If happy with initial seconds then make the donation immediately.
This can be addictive once the first meet has been completed so it can be expensive.

[DazzzaXXX]

So everything involving an escort is illegal in Ireland?

[CockMor]

Right now it's the wrong time of the year for this advice but going to see the escort after dark helps with being discreet as does wearing a hat on approach to apartment.

[SmallHorn]

Right now it's the wrong time of the year for this advice but going to see the escort after dark helps with being discreet as does wearing a hat on approach to apartment.

One of these too I suppose. Discreet and all