Oh don't you play the victim card with me Mr.!
Delibetately misinterpreting your posts and attempting to insinuate an attack!?!? Well what do you bloody expect posting here like this hmm?! Pffff
See what I did there
Or... I'm not deliberately misinterpreting you. I had to deliberately try understand you. I am being deliberately argumentative ...by keeping it going. Like this...
Good analogy
except she's not really about being burgled. She is saying why did they have to torch the place too. Unnecessarily callous behaviour.
And, whatever about holding your hands up and saying "ya I left the door open :/" you'd still question the kind of burglar that went too far.
All she said was why would he torch the place too. No victim card. Your statement was irrelevant.
I have an analogy for you too...
Bad guy: Ba durka durka you will be stoned for sleeping with the married man.
Girl: Why? Why would you do this? (I can't believe they do this to me)
On looker: You, you deserve it, you ask why?! Silly woman. You knew the risk and now you get it.
Girl: Yes, I know what I did. That is not the why that I ask. I ask the other why, why he behave like this to me and think it ok?