General Question......

[funlover12]

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amateur

[Westsidex]

Is not a terrible opinion mister. Thats the truth and i think we all should be more open minded.

Even if my partner would be 100% as i want i dont guarantee that i will have sex only with him. And i hope he wont have sex only with me.

Sex is a lovely pleasure, we should experience any time we have the chance. There's only one life we been leaving.

So what your saying is that because of your job ,your partner sould cheat. Not only that but your think all men cheat and should cheat every time the chance arises? If so your an idiot. Ever hear of morals?

Westside.

[Westsidex]

Maybe you are listening to too many "stories"?

A lot of people listen to stories and lots of stories are to try and manipulate the person into the others way of thinking to achieve something they want.

Westside.

[JennyT]

So what your saying is that because of your job ,your partner sould cheat. Not only that but your think all men cheat and should cheat every time the chance arises? If so your an idiot. Ever hear of morals?

Westside.

Well we clearly have diffrent point a view about cheating.

[Westsidex]

Well we clearly have diffrent point a view about cheating.

Well at least your honest.

Westside.

[Barney Rubble]

So what your saying is that because of your job ,your partner sould cheat. Not only that but your think all men cheat and should cheat every time the chance arises? If so your an idiot. Ever hear of morals?

Westside.

I have heard that the majority of an escort's clients are married men so surely this illustrates anny's point.

[Crashburnsraffo]

From an escorts point of view it is natural to assume all men cheat..obviously most of an escorts clients are men who cheat.
Escorts will presumably never meet a married client who never cheats..
I do believe that there are a vast majority of men who have never cheated on their partner and never will..
Just my tuppence worth 😁

[IrishSarahBarra]

.... question directed at the ladies but comments from the guys are more than welcome.


On a scale of 1-10 ( with 10 being exceptionally important ) , how important do you think it is for a female partner, in a long term relationship, to make sure that she makes the effort to look as reasonably sexy and attractive as she can for her hard working man ? Also, how important would you guess ( 1-10 ) it is for the guy that his partner does make that effort ?

10 for both. But I reckon (generally) the feeling of 10 for a woman is greater than the expectation in 10 for a man. ...I don't think men are as fussy as women think they are. Generally.

That's a 10 based on "her hard working man."
Idk what her hard working man is really but I'll assume something.

For me, there are only two things affect my effort/outlay. First, how I feel about myself. I have to feel desirable. I must know how to keep that going and it must be worth the effort.

Motivation for some reason. Doesn't specifically have to be for my partner. It can be my own pride or for a table full of women.

Second, how I feel about my partner (both sexually and non sexually.) My "sexy" feelings for a long term partner are completely tied up in trust and respect. I must feel both.

If I don't trust or respect him then I don't want to fuck him. Simple as that.

Now, tust and respect can be difficult to maintain. I think trust is easier. When it's broken, it comes back quicker. Lose respect and you're climbing a mountain.

Quickest way for me to lose respect for a partner (presuming he is a good guy of course) is for me to get the feeling that I'm wearing the pants. I can not wear pants. Don't make me wear pants. Put me in pants and I will despise him. Secretly. On some level.

[Barney Rubble]

10 for both. But I reckon (generally) the feeling of 10 for a woman is greater than the expectation in 10 for a man. ...I don't think men are as fussy as women think they are. Generally.

That's a 10 based on "her hard working man."
Idk what her hard working man is really but I'll assume something.

For me, there are only two things affect my effort/outlay. First, how I feel about myself. I have to feel desirable. I must know how to keep that going and it must be worth the effort.

Motivation for some reason. Doesn't specifically have to be for my partner. It can be my own pride or for a table full of women.

Second, how I feel about my partner (both sexually and non sexually.) My "sexy" feelings for a long term partner are completely tied up in trust and respect. I must feel both.

If I don't trust or respect him then I don't want to fuck him. Simple as that.

Now, tust and respect can be difficult to maintain. I think trust is easier. When it's broken, it comes back quicker. Lose respect and you're climbing a mountain.

Quickest way for me to lose respect for a partner (presuming he is a good guy of course) is for me to get the feeling that I'm wearing the pants. I can not wear pants. Don't make me wear pants. Put me in pants and I will despise him. Secretly. On some level.

So do you go commando then Sarah ?