R*pe and Sexual Ab*se

[Mr Sweet Guy]

I was watching a programme not long back and story of people who faces where blank and voice change as they endure sexual ab*se or r*pe with is traumatic and devastating to deal as it affect all ages which I condemned all of it......
And just wanted to bring up topic as it got me thinking as I said before I met one Lady in FKK in Germany and she told me after my time with her she hated the job she work in as lot of clients she no attraction to and yes she said small minority of clients she enjoy....
And yes maybe she consent to it but is it not r*pe in her mind as she maybe lying their motionless as he has sex with her as which she clearly not enjoying....
But correct me if wrong but I know these Ladies has a right to consent to sex but what happen if a client meet the Escort and she no chemistry with as that put her in awkward position as I know Escort not to click with all clients....
And wonder does all clients ask for consent to sex with the Lady first as I certainly do...
As I know it time and company but jeez most clients go to meet the Escort for sex...
Any feedback good and bad is welcome as any want to rig me or say I wrong on this it good to as you learn a lot from listen to them...
But I guess maybe only Escorts can answer most thing on this this thread as it they who are ones who working to make us clients happy behind close door....
I say watching that programme was sad and frustrating as we'll as sickening as make you think what some people would think of and do as people like that have no guilt or remorse....

[Mr Sweet Guy]

A few rules I have (wish I had these earlier, as I have a couple of regrets)

1. Assume the lady is only willing to have sex because she wants money. If that's not enough for you, get out of the game. You might be lucky that she also fancies you, but you'll never know for certain. Even with fully independent ladies, you have to assume you are paying for consent, and be ethically comfortable with that. If you think payment invalidates consent, then take up golf.

2. Nobody who advertises as a teenager. Even 21 and under. I'm glad I don't have to take too much responsibility for crazy shit I did at that age. No doubt, some girls at that age can handle the responsibility, but I'm not taking the chance. On a side note, my worst experiences so far have been with under 25s.

3. If she says no, that means no consent. Stop. Move on. Learn whatever lesson you need to from that.

4. Nobody who can't communicate verbally in English. They are too vulnerable and dependent on 3rd parties for support. Texts can be from anyone.

5. Nobody who shows any sign of fear or sadness.


I never ask for consent, but then I never ask for sex. It just happens. They clearly love me.

That a very good post as you said some very good valid points Drbagebot as your statement and your post made point good and clear and yes it all about consent of Lady wishes as if she indeed say no or any person does then other person should stop as indeed if the person if consume too much alcohol then even with their consent you should not go through with sex as I had to stop on few Ladies I met in my outside life that was too drunk even if they told me it ok as it can still be class as r*pe....
As we all done thing that we regret as sadly make many more before we gone...
Thanks you Drbagebot for your very good opinion and great post as I said again you make lot of good valid point....

[philipkntz]

A few rules I have (wish I had these earlier, as I have a couple of regrets)

1. Assume the lady is only willing to have sex because she wants money. If that's not enough for you, get out of the game. You might be lucky that she also fancies you, but you'll never know for certain. Even with fully independent ladies, you have to assume you are paying for consent, and be ethically comfortable with that. If you think payment invalidates consent, then take up golf.

2. Nobody who advertises as a teenager. Even 21 and under. I'm glad I don't have to take too much responsibility for crazy shit I did at that age. No doubt, some girls at that age can handle the responsibility, but I'm not taking the chance. On a side note, my worst experiences so far have been with under 25s.

3. If she says no, that means no consent. Stop. Move on. Learn whatever lesson you need to from that.

4. Nobody who can't communicate verbally in English. They are too vulnerable and dependent on 3rd parties for support. Texts can be from anyone.

5. Nobody who shows any sign of fear or sadness.


I never ask for consent, but then I never ask for sex. It just happens. They clearly love me.

Pretty much the same rules for me but I'd add that if her voice isn't the same voice as on the phone, I'm out of there. Also I rarely see under 29s.

[randaddy2017]

Rape or any kind abuse is gross.

I never ever sleep with someone (punting or otherwise) under the influence of drugs, or who might abuse drugs, including recreational drugs. I look our for, and listen for, all the big warning signs.

Im also cautious about my own alcohol consumption prior to and during a punt. One-three drinks max. I want to remain clear-headed so that Im aware what Im getting myself into. And, I would avoid sleeping with an escort if shes clearly drunk (never happened). Outside punting i've avoided women who were pissed-up that wanted to bone. Not worth it, in my opinion. And like others have said, I dont bother visiting women in their early 20s.

By being clear-headed and doing my research before a punt I've managed to avoid any situations where an escort appears to be trafficked. If I've got even a whiff that something weird is going on I leave/cancel the booking/call the authorities etc.Thankfully Ive not had any major excitement to deal with.

And, if I feel like an escort really doesnt want to have sex with me, I wont. And, yes, this has happened on two occasions. Both times the escort was having a bit of a meltdown over a previous client. We chatted, I paid my money in full, and returned on another date. I couldnt force myself to do it even if I wanted to. Im not a total bastard.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Rape or any kind abuse is gross.

I never ever sleep with someone (punting or otherwise) under the influence of drugs, or who might abuse drugs, including recreational drugs. I look our for, and listen for, all the big warning signs.

Im also cautious about my own alcohol consumption prior to and during a punt. One-three drinks max. I want to remain clear-headed so that Im aware what Im getting myself into. And, I would avoid sleeping with an escort if shes clearly drunk (never happened). Outside punting i've avoided women who were pissed-up that wanted to bone. Not worth it, in my opinion. And like others have said, I dont bother visiting women in their early 20s.

By being clear-headed and doing my research before a punt I've managed to avoid any situations where an escort appears to be trafficked. If I've got even a whiff that something weird is going on I leave/cancel the booking/call the authorities etc.Thankfully Ive not had any major excitement to deal with.

And, if I feel like an escort really doesnt want to have sex with me, I wont. And, yes, this has happened on two occasions. Both times the escort was having a bit of a meltdown over a previous client. We chatted, I paid my money in full, and returned on another date. I couldnt force myself to do it even if I wanted to. Im not a total bastard.

Yes I did to met a Lady Randaddy who was assaulted and force to have sex with a client as he was drunk and wasn't happy with her service provided as he demand his money back and she wouldn't pay at time as he over spend his time with her...
Later came back and broke her door and assault her as I met her week after on Saturday And her first word when I came in was I hope you nice guy and that when she broke down and we chatted as I book a hour as she had bruises on arm and neck and side of her cheek where he hit her as we'll as broken nails as she wouldn't give his money back....
But in the end she did and he was arrested 2 day after...
We chat and in the end I got a business service which I refuse at time but she insisted as chat relax her as at time I alway shy and nervous one but this and only time since she was nervous one and she was a Norwegian Escort but she left near 3 year's now as don't see her here....
But looking back now I should walk as I was idiot to have sex with her as maybe next client would have but that his decision on what he do...
Great post Randaddy and keep the Legend going...

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