Originally Posted by
Anitafan
I would agree that tie and tease is usually more of a sensual experience than a BDSM one. But a bit of both is great. The "tie" bit means a loss of control, and puts the service provider in charge. For me, having the service provider in charge is the most exciting and important part. A bit of pain should be used, if only to point out that the service provider IS in charge. But not to the point of inflicting massive pain and torture. There are a couple of things that I love as part of this kind of session, and usually these are more associated with domination than with regular escorting. So for me, a dominatrix who offers her kind of "tie and tease" is attractive - whatever that may be.