sex with escorts versus sex with your wife

[The Libertarian]

if i thought the way back then - the way i think now - i would never have gotten married

although having a nice healthy bank balance definitely changes things
including my own opinion of myself

in fact nowadays - i don't even see why someone would want to get married - unless they met the proverbial girl of their dreams

so long as i have internet - a housekeeper to clean up the depraved mess that is my living conditions - and some escorts with whom i can perform filthy acts and live out my sordid fantasies with - the idea of marriage now seems preposterous to me
unless i had some sick compulsion to give away half me stuff in the inevitable divorce that would ensue

fact is - im not physically attractive enough to hold down a long term relationship with a woman with whom i might actually WANT a long term relationship with - without worrying that she would be lusting after guys that could be attractive enough to cater to her physical desires
there is no getting over that fact

What age are you roughly?
Also divorce can have devastating lifestyle consequences in particular for men, who usually end up worse off!

[bollocks]

not to mention the fact that sex with escorts is always great cause they approach it like a task
with certain commitments which they are obligated to fulfill

married sex is bound to get tedious even if one finds their wife hot

maybe one day a new breed of women will arise where they prioritize being sex freaks for their husbands on an indefinite unfaltering basis

but until that day - im certainly happy that we havent evolved past the commonly perceived "depravity" that is - paying for sex

not to mention - having sex with strangers is also great

Wives will have to learn and work harder,
Until there is no need for escorts, nor massage parlours,

[bollocks]

I was told not to marry a good looking man as looks fade quick but ugly ones can get rich

and women get ugly quick enough, after a few kids.

[Curvaceous Kate]

and women get ugly quick enough, after a few kids.

Thank God I stopped at one!!!

[clarelad]

But Kate you're sexy as hell Mmmm

[Rocker123]

which do you find better?



Sex with an escort is less expensive in the long term!!!

[howardsteele]

Actually the only man I have ever met (a classmate from school) who was at a looks level (a bit like Jon Bon Jovi) where Irish women would ask him directly for a fuck and on one ocassion, I saw a group of women (early 20s) go up to a window, where they could see him at work and exclaim he was the best looking man ever, now works in a public sector job where he is on a €100K per year!
As the saying is have you ever seen a good looking homeless man!
There is a strong correlation very often for men and women between earning levels and looks and not just in sex related industries!

no never, do you think all the rich old ladies take them in then instantly

[SteveB]

If sex with wives was any good, all the escorts would soon go out of business.

[Stephanie]

if i thought the way back then - the way i think now - i would never have gotten married

although having a nice healthy bank balance definitely changes things
including my own opinion of myself

in fact nowadays - i don't even see why someone would want to get married - unless they met the proverbial girl of their dreams

so long as i have internet - a housekeeper to clean up the depraved mess that is my living conditions - and some escorts with whom i can perform filthy acts and live out my sordid fantasies with -
the idea of marriage now seems preposterous to me
unless i had some sick compulsion to give away half me stuff in the inevitable divorce that would ensue

fact is - im not physically attractive enough to hold down a long term relationship with a woman with whom i might actually WANT a long term relationship with - without worrying that she would be lusting after guys that could be attractive enough to cater to her physical desires
there is no getting over that fact

What about a hug at the end of a day ?

Someone close to your heart you can share your joys and troubles with ?

Someone to support you in your darkest hours , someone to be there for you when you're down or not feeling well ?

Is that not what marriage is supposed to be ??

Perhaps I am naive .. x

[Curvaceous Kate]

If sex with wives was any good, all the escorts would soon go out of business.

It makes you wonder doesn't it. For every man who thinks the sex with his wife is bad there is likely to be a woman who thinks that sex with her husband is bad. Yet there are very few male sex workers who are there to service women.

Also if the sex is bad with the wives, what makes the man think that the problem lies with the woman?