Originally Posted by
Cortez
Can I ask are you married yourself? I agree 100% that it is cheating. I believe that most (irish) women would feck there husbands out the door if they knew they were seeing escorts on a regular basis. If a fella strayed once in a blue moon he might get away with it. It is true to say that seeing an escort is better than having an affair but that's only from our side. There is no emotional attachment (hopefully) and you wont have any bunny boilers following you around the town. Very few married women that I know would hang on to their husbands if they knew they were tapping escorts on a regular basis and I wouldn't blame them.
But it is wrong for you to be preaching to married blokes about this. The vast majority of clients are married or in a relationship, i'm not proud of what I do but I rarely feel guilty either. Things happen, people change, walking out of a relationship isn't the answer when things break down, theres mortgages, kids, other family shit, illness and god knows what else. 2 years ago I would have laughed at you if you told me I would start seeing escorts, but I did, and I have no regrets. And there is a lot less tension in my house because of it too. I don't want to go so far as to say its human nature but fellas carrying on outside their relationships its a lot more common than what people think.
Be grateful to the married blokes, if it wasn't for us there would be very few hot ladies here. The other thing that I would say is that i'm glad I didn't see escorts as a younger fella, I might never have got married and known what its like to be in a proper relationship. I have that worry about some of the young fellas that come on here.
Life will never be perfect for any of us.