Married and men in relationship cheating

[Mr Sweet Guy]

Its different situations for different people... i have very high sex drive and my partner hasent...very little to none to be honest... so she said go meet girls aslong as i know...i said no then she found ei and even picked my first escort.

Then mate you got a great partner who obviously care about you as she trust you to meet escorts and come home to her at night..I commend you both as trust is very important in relationship and better meeting a escort than a lady in bar or club..And whoseyourdaddy right about what he said..
But TriplexXx did you ever consider ask your partner to join you in meeting a escort to maybe she like to join to get her sex drive back as only opinion mate and not telling you what to do as none of my business..So don't take it wrong way mate and good luck to you both and enjoy punting and good dinner every evening with your lady TriplexXx..

[Mr Sweet Guy]

[QUOTE=casman;1872861]What she doesn't know, won't harm her.

First I want to say Casman your popular here and with ladies too...So you wouldn't mind if your Lady was seeing male escort or friend or someone at work as you say what you don't know won't harm you..As they say 2 can play the game and damn sure wouldn't like it done on me as any guy who say it wouldn't bother them is deluded..And by way single at moment as I wouldn't be meeting escort as when meet some one time hang up the boots..As lot ladies find their guy watching porn kind of cheating in a way..Imagine what they think if guys meeting and having sex with escorts or having affairs especially if kids involved..As it destroys a good relationship and kids get hurt to..

[PlankMan]

[QUOTE=Mr Sweet Guy;1872988]

What she doesn't know, won't harm her.

First I want to say Casman your popular here and with ladies too...So you wouldn't mind if your Lady was seeing male escort or friend or someone at work as you say what you don't know won't harm you..As they say 2 can play the game and damn sure wouldn't like it done on me as any guy who say it wouldn't bother them is deluded..And by way single at moment as I wouldn't be meeting escort as when meet some one time hang up the boots..As lot ladies find their guy watching porn kind of cheating in a way..Imagine what they think if guys meeting and having sex with escorts or having affairs especially if kids involved..As it destroys a good relationship and kids get hurt to..

Most of us on here have somewhat of a distorted view from the rest of society. Many of us divorce sex from emotion. That is not the case with the population at large; the majority of partners would feel a fundamental sense of betrayal if they knew that we were unfaithful. On reflection, we probably have some variation of Asperger's or some other social handicap.

[casman]

[QUOTE=Mr Sweet Guy;1872988]

What she doesn't know, won't harm her.

First I want to say Casman your popular here and with ladies too...So you wouldn't mind if your Lady was seeing male escort or friend or someone at work as you say what you don't know won't harm you..As they say 2 can play the game and damn sure wouldn't like it done on me as any guy who say it wouldn't bother them is deluded..And by way single at moment as I wouldn't be meeting escort as when meet some one time hang up the boots..As lot ladies find their guy watching porn kind of cheating in a way..Imagine what they think if guys meeting and having sex with escorts or having affairs especially if kids involved..As it destroys a good relationship and kids get hurt to..

I wouldn't go that far Mr Sweet Guy ha, of course I wouldn't like my other half cheating on me, but for sure I would be far more forgiving if she was seeing an escort, rather than having an affair and screwing my best friend. I'm just saying I have seen relationships ruined because of affairs, where as an escorts will provide sex, with no emotional attachment. I'm single right now and I don't know if its escorts who is preventing me from finding someone, but I am having the time of my life being single and having lots of fun, I would like to think in the future if I do settle down, that I wouldn't cheat, but who knows, from what I read here from posters, sex seems to dry up when you put a ring on it, so who is to say I won't need to avail of an escort, to satisfy my natural urges in the future, when the other half just doesn't want to get intimate anymore. We all have needs, and I can totally understand why married men avail of escorts, it's the lesser of the evils and a lot more discrete than an affair.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

[QUOTE=PlankMan;1872997]

Most of us on here have somewhat of a distorted view from the rest of society. Many of us divorce sex from emotion. That is not the case with the population at large; the majority of partners would feel a fundamental sense of betrayal if they knew that we were unfaithful. On reflection, we probably have some variation of Asperger's or some other social handicap.

I wouldn't go that far as last statement as each individual has their own life and problems to solve..But end of the day every couple has problem it how you deal with it as people with low sex drive is something can be deal with little patience and corporation..But running off having a affair or meeting escorts not answer..I was in a bar 3 week's ago with few mate and 2 ladies Sat near us chatting about their bloke back home as lack of sex is depriving them as one said to other that vibrator be use tonight as he not interested as could be plenty reason as maybe he loss sex drive having affair as excuse to not have sex with them but last statement is crazy as both were hot looking..Maybe he right mate as he think they where trying to get our attention..I guess we never know now..

[Iusedtobesomeonelse]

sex and love are 2 different things!!

[Stevenn]

sex and love are 2 different things!!

Perhaps. But its not so cut and dry as that. For most people the two are intrinsically linked.

Naive to think otherwise.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

[QUOTE=casman;1873060]

I wouldn't go that far Mr Sweet Guy ha, of course I wouldn't like my other half cheating on me, but for sure I would be far more forgiving if she was seeing an escort, rather than having an affair and screwing my best friend. I'm just saying I have seen relationships ruined because of affairs, where as an escorts will provide sex, with no emotional attachment. I'm single right now and I don't know if its escorts who is preventing me from finding someone, but I am having the time of my life being single and having lots of fun, I would like to think in the future if I do settle down, that I wouldn't cheat, but who knows, from what I read here from posters, sex seems to dry up when you put a ring on it, so who is to say I won't need to avail of an escort, to satisfy my natural urges in the future, when the other half just doesn't want to get intimate anymore. We all have needs, and I can totally understand why married men avail of escorts, it's the lesser of the evils and a lot more discrete than an affair.

I didn't know you where Single Casman and I thought you have a lady from your earlier statement..I apologise to you Casman as I didn't mean to throw a dig at you as it was a question put to you and hopefully didn't offend you..As I read last statement you got a good sense of humor and obviously take a lot to piss you off which is good thing as patience is key to everything..As you say you young single and free to meet whoever you like and enjoy meeting beautiful ladies..But one Lady if you get the chance to meet mate is Czech Rep Lady call Sexy Crystal as she doesn't tour much here But believe me she one of the best I ever met in my time as well as Neetu massage who in Scotland which I hope to meet around St Patrick Day weekend..Can't wait and one other Lady call Suzan who Spanish and what a body and she a stunner but mostly in letterkenny but she hardly tour as my time with her is erotic and wonderful..But go and try meet them 2 ladies here As won't be disappointed..Both ladies I click with but can't guarantee you will as you know yourself every client has different experience with escort..But you won't know mate until you meet them..

[Larrii]

Relationships are not just about sex, but kids, friends, a home, careers, both your families, holidays - lots of sharing.

If the deal is that you are both going to be faithful, provided the other partner keeps you happy in bed most of the time (for why else would you be faithful?!), then when it goes wrong or quiet, as a man you have 3 choices-

1. Do nothing, and hope it will magickally cure itself (you've tried. so more than likely it won't)
2. Start chasing your female friends
3. Look for a partner that neither of you knows.

2. is tacky as it involves a double betrayal. Women are most concerned about what their friends think.

3. Nobody needs to know. Just don't promise marriage and back out, because that is tacky. Escorts don't expect more than that you are respectful, clean and solvent.


It's not worth ending all that shared side of a relationship just for sex, leading to an expensive divorce and loads of heartache all round.

[casman]

[QUOTE=Mr Sweet Guy;1873130]

I didn't know you where Single Casman and I thought you have a lady from your earlier statement..I apologise to you Casman as I didn't mean to throw a dig at you as it was a question put to you and hopefully didn't offend you..As I read last statement you got a good sense of humor and obviously take a lot to piss you off which is good thing as patience is key to everything..As you say you young single and free to meet whoever you like and enjoy meeting beautiful ladies..But one Lady if you get the chance to meet mate is Czech Rep Lady call Sexy Crystal as she doesn't tour much here But believe me she one of the best I ever met in my time as well as Neetu massage who in Scotland which I hope to meet around St Patrick Day weekend..Can't wait and one other Lady call Suzan who Spanish and what a body and she a stunner but mostly in letterkenny but she hardly tour as my time with her is erotic and wonderful..But go and try meet them 2 ladies here As won't be disappointed..Both ladies I click with but can't guarantee you will as you know yourself every client has different experience with escort..But you won't know mate until you meet them..

Your grand Mr Sweet Guy, no hassle at all, and your right about Sexy Crystal, a lady I have met a number of times, a stunning looking lady, you don't see many ladies of her calibre where i live, and it's a pleasure to meet such fascinating, stunning women, it's the life for sure, but I don't smoke or drink so it's my only vice