Originally Posted by
Curvaceous Kate
How do you know when an Escort is at a bar? I wouldn't have a clue how to recognise someone was there for anything other than a drink. Which City's do you do this in? I don't think it happens where I come from.
Having not done what you are talking about I can relate it to my time as a swinger and what I found is that where you may click with someone mentally, that does not always translate sexually. You may feel that you are going to have a better time for having established a click mentally, but it is no guarantee. I can say that at least once that has happened with the forums too, only funnily enough we were fine sexually, but after that we discovered we actually had nothing in common at all and didn't click in real life.
On another note, when I was in England I was on another forum where they did have social gatherings and I went to one or two of them and I found myself disliking most of the clients that went and then avoiding them. I may have discovered one or two that I had not really spoken to before that I liked, but in the main it was more a negative experience. I much prefer it when I don't know who the person is and can get to know them during the booking. They can tell me after who they are on here if they want to, but after is better than before. No preconceptions and all that.