Kill my nerves - advice for a newbie

[whoseyourdaddy]

Today :



On 13-08-14 :




Martin ,

You have near 50 posts over 2+ years , asking the same thing over and over ... even while getting good replies and advice and help along the way .

I say Don't go down our road .

Clearly (unless you are a windup merchant) something has been holding you back all this time : your conscience ??

Marry the girl , have a family , and Fantasize about us xx

Martin,

This might be the best free advice you will ever get in your life.

[Stephanie]

If you have been with the same woman for 7 years and believe you would like to make a permanent commitment to her then deciding to see an escort whatever the mechanics and location would surely be seen by her as a betrayal of trust, and you may ultimately lose far more than you gain. Both in terms of broken trust and ultimately posssibly the end of a relationship. Consider carefully if that is a price you are willing to pay.

Unless you are willing and able to talk about this with your partner and reach some kind of agreement about fulfilling your sexual curiosity then I would definitely stay away.

And ask yourself, would you be willing to extend the same freedom to experiment with different sexual partners to your girl friend, should she choose to?
Also seeing escorts is no good for a guy's self esteem. Ultimately you are paying a girl to be intimate with you and that does shit to your head, and to be honest likely to hers too.

You did ask...

How realistic is this really for most guys though ??

In theory , of course this would be preferable for all , but in reality ,

how many guys have discussed their forays and got permission from Sig O's to "fulfill(ing) your sexual curiosity" ??




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[Mister Anderson]

How realistic is this really for most guys though ??

In theory , of course this would be preferable for all , but in reality ,

how many guys have discussed their forays and got permission from Sig O's to "fulfill(ing) your sexual curiosity" ??

A whole other thread there I'd say Stephanie, it'll only get lost here

[Stephanie]

He can't.
Life is
Not like that
He will know
Even if
No one else does
And done it once
He'll do it again
And again
And again.
And one day she will
Find out

^^^ and this in itself changes the relationship and how one feels for the other ...

[EIFII]

How realistic is this really for most guys though ??

In theory , of course this would be preferable for all , but in reality ,

how many guys have discussed their forays and got permission from Sig O's to "fulfill(ing) your sexual curiosity" ??




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My point exactly

[EIFII]

^^^ and this in itself changes the relationship and how one feels for the other ...

My point exactly. Again

[tom sand]

but what if
she will never know EIFII
what if
he can.............. have his cake
and eat it
but what if
he loves this girl so much
but he now thinks he can eat his cake and get away with it
have the best of both worlds
what if
EIFII

I was been the devil advocate here
with sarcasm
and nobody got it
no one
OMG

[EIFII]

I was been the devil advocate here
with sarcasm
and nobody got it
no one
OMG

And now to make matters worse, you're quoting yourself

[tom sand]

And now to make matters worse, you're quoting yourself

I do that all the time round here
I quote respond to my posts
as
if no body is watching
but
your watching
you just replyed
maybe
not so mad
after all
what you
thing
EIFII

[Mister Anderson]