Refused because of my Race

[QuietSoul]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

[Irish Leigha]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

I fully understand ladies not seeing guys because of nationality however, there is no need to be abusive or mean. A clear no at the start would be sufficient.


Personally, I've met some lovely foreign clients however, I don't see any client (foreign or not) without references for safety purposes.

I'm sorry to hear that you have had bad experiences and hope that someone changes those negatives into positives

Happy Xmas xx

[DevTeam]

Is "client preferences" something that both the escorts and punters would like to see on the escorts advert? It has been mentioned a few times but the management could never come to agreement on the feature for all of the obvious reasons.

It is most obviously always the escorts choice which clients they wish to meet but would it make like easier if the escort could say on their advert (purely for example purposes below):

My client preferences:

"Sorry no Irish men"
"Sorry regulars only"

etc...

Just opening this up for a little bit of input, its something we can raise again with management if both users and escorts find it useful.

[Irish Leigha]

Is "client preferences" something that both the escorts and punters would like to see on the escorts advert? It has been mentioned a few times but the management could never come to agreement on the feature for all of the obvious reasons.

It is most obviously always the escorts choice which clients they wish to meet but would it make like easier if the escort could say on their advert (purely for example purposes below):

My client preferences:

"Sorry no Irish men"
"Sorry regulars only"

etc...

Just opening this up for a little bit of input, its something we can raise again with management if both users and escorts find it useful.

It sounds like a good idea.

It will provide clarity for both escorts and clients alike.

[JAMESCORK]

Is "client preferences" something that both the escorts and punters would like to see on the escorts advert? It has been mentioned a few times but the management could never come to agreement on the feature for all of the obvious reasons.

It is most obviously always the escorts choice which clients they wish to meet but would it make like easier if the escort could say on their advert (purely for example purposes below):

My client preferences:

"Sorry no Irish men"
"Sorry regulars only"

etc...

Just opening this up for a little bit of input, its something we can raise again with management if both users and escorts find it useful.

It sounds like a good idea.

It will provide clarity for both escorts and clients alike.

God no!... Let an escort maybe subtly suggest her preferences in her intro, but don't put a tick box for "No Blacks", "No Irish", "No ........"

To the OP, yeah, very annoying and very humiliating. But as others have said before, not all escorts are so selective. You may also PM me sir.

[Irishdude145]

It sounds like a good idea.

It will provide clarity for both escorts and clients alike.

be good for clients too, so they know who to avoid.

I wouldnt be very comfortable seeing an escort who was seeing non irish men, ie men the op is describing

[Irish Leigha]

be good for clients too, so they know who to avoid.

I wouldnt be very comfortable seeing an escort who was seeing non irish men, ie men the op is describing

I don't think he meant Irish men specifically. I'm aware a lot of foreign ladies won't see clients from their country of origin for example, a lot of Romanian escorts won't see clients from Romania.

[MidlifeCrisis]

Is "client preferences" something that both the escorts and punters would like to see on the escorts advert? It has been mentioned a few times but the management could never come to agreement on the feature for all of the obvious reasons.

It is most obviously always the escorts choice which clients they wish to meet but would it make like easier if the escort could say on their advert (purely for example purposes below):

My client preferences:

"Sorry no Irish men"
"Sorry regulars only"

etc...

Just opening this up for a little bit of input, its something we can raise again with management if both users and escorts find it useful.

I think the way this thread has gone gives you your answer. Threads about nationality also deteriorate rapidly into unpleasantness.

At the moment it seems accepted that escorts can put client age preferences, and whether or not they are disabled-friendly. I think opening it up to more than that is a slippery slope - better to let them handle it as they do now, by asking questions if they need to know more about a client in advance.

I don't think anyone disputes an escorts right to discriminate - they clearly always can say no if they feel uncomfortable for any reason.

[Mr Sweet Guy]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

I am sorry mate to hear that terrible thing and sad world to live in as I know people have opinion right of choice on who they meet...I met a beautiful Ebony lady and even she won't even see Black men or Foreign men either as only Irish or British men and I said it racist but she said it her preferred choice.....I wish I could give you answer but even I lost for words mate...Their is a lot of good Escorts out there who don't have a problem with race or nationality so don't give up and keep trying mate and I know it hard and frustrating but you got to keep going and good luck...

[bettercallsaul]

I'm Irish but Black and its getting so difficult now to see escorts because they have a problem with my skin colour.
Most are foreign escorts themselves although have been refused by Irish girls too.
Its embarrassing getting an appointment and travelling and then been told when the door opened they cant see you or if they do then lots of favourites not then done.
To stop wasting their time and mine I tell them on the phone now with some foreign escorts putting the phone down after telling me they dont see N.........

I had not that much hassle seeing escorts before but got much worse now, i'm a professional and treat all women well and with respect but why should my skin colour pose a problem now.

Wow!

I Honestly have no clue what you are facing, I WON'T EVEN PRETEND TOO! But I do know several ladies and many of them are Irish btw that would be pleased to meet you if you are genuine, Pm me If ya want!