Would you help for someone who neds a help?

[Curvaceous Kate]

I used to try and help people regardless of how well I knew them or how it might impact on my life, but needing help does not mean you appreciate the help and treat the person helping you with the same respect is what I discovered. Where I didn't appreciate how helping might make my own life difficult in the past, now I do know that, so I think much more carefully before offering. Can I afford to help that person? What might happen in my life if I help that person and can I live with that? If the answer is no, then I don't help directly, but if I can will try and find less direct solutions for the person.

Having said that I wouldn't involve a third person if I felt I couldn't trust the person needing help, as I would feel guilty if another person I involved got into trouble or lost out financially because of it.

[RoyTheBoy]

I used to try and help people regardless of how well I knew them or how it might impact on my life, but needing help does not mean you appreciate the help and treat the person helping you with the same respect is what I discovered. Where I didn't appreciate how helping might make my own life difficult in the past, now I do know that, so I think much more carefully before offering. Can I afford to help that person? What might happen in my life if I help that person and can I live with that? If the answer is no, then I don't help directly, but if I can will try and find less direct solutions for the person.

Having said that I wouldn't involve a third person if I felt I couldn't trust the person needing help, as I would feel guilty if another person I involved got into trouble or lost out financially because of it.

ah its yourself kate, remember few winters ago around Christmas time, you run out of heating oil and it would freeze the balls of you, who's the Boy that came to your rescue.

[TriplexXx]

Ive stopped and helped people who have broke down on side of road n fixed their car or changed wheel ive helped with money whi h is always ghe worst thing to do in most cases because can cause hard feelings...ive helped people on their farms moveing their animals to different places ive evsn made myself late for work to help people n they dont appreciate it and you never get any help back... I had a huge car crash last year n wrote off a car it sent my left leg tempory numb so i sat on the floor next to a upside down car covered in cuts and visuallg in pain waiting for ambulance and tow truck and i kid you not... Not one car stopped to see if i was ok... But things is even after that i still help people call me stupid call me soft call me what ever you like ... I just dont like seeing people struggle when theres something that can be done

[Walshie]

Polish people said that the Irish are very good at helping others whether its stopping to help or just being there, they say in their own country they don't do that and keep to themselves and I did witness that firsthand too as stopped one girl out there for directions and she just looked at me as if I had two heads

[Cassandra]

so nice to see that a client very helpfull
but hats up with the escorts
i mean between escorts
i have to say some very nice and really helpfull
but some not at all and like stir the shit here with a fake reason .......
is not nice i hate it

Why are you doing this to yourself?


Anyways to answer the question, I always help where I can but there's helping then there's being a doormat you dig? Terms and Conditions like that man up there said.

[howardsteele]

I'd most definitely give Sherry one, a hand I mean

[Clueless]

In the past I have helped people and then again I have also sat on the fence and avoiding getting involved when you are unsure of who's who or what's what- you can help some people and they turn on you!!

I can imagine picking up a drunk on the dude of the road and helping him!!

[Curvaceous Kate]

ah its yourself kate, remember few winters ago around Christmas time, you run out of heating oil and it would freeze the balls of you, who's the Boy that came to your rescue.

I can't remember. I do remember it ran out a few times and I might have needed advise on where to get some, but can't remember being given any. I'm sure someone stole some off me while I was away home for Xmas as it had all gone on my return and I hadn't been using any. So glad oil isn't popular back in England. It's so expensive!

I know it might sound weird, but in some ways I trust clients more than I do other sex workers, as I get to know them better.

[Curvaceous Kate]

No, every day you'll come across someone who needs help. Your being a hypocrite if saying yes. I donate to charity and give money to people begging, but really helping them, nope.

Out of the sex industry I'm a lot more likely to help, as it's far less likely that there will be any repercussions. The more of yourself you give in this industry, the more open you leave yourself to having your world taken apart.

I once bought a book for a homeless guy, but when I got back with it he vanished. I hope that means he got himself sorted out. I still have it in my car just in case he ever comes back, but that was 11 months ago now.

I've stopped to make sure people are okay when they have been on the floor in the street as well, when no one else would speak to them, as they were worried they were on drugs or drunk and waited until an ambulance came and got them. There was me and this old lady looking after him.

I can't walk by if I think someone is in trouble or needs help, but that is so different, because helping them in that way is just a moment of time and can't leave me homeless or my Mum with a broken heart.

[IrishSarahBarra]

This is really cute. Yes, absolutely, anytime. If your head starts to find reasons not to help people out, it is getting older and harder, not wiser. You should probably help more just to combat that.