Friends who are they???

[lapd]

This is more of an observational post than for discussion. But do we really, know who our friends are or do we care? I spent 3 hours talking to a stranger Saturday morning, took a break for 2 mins and the guy turned lots of people’s lives to shit, So I needed to know someone was there, so I texted a “friend” on here at some ungodly hour sitting in the cat, thinking I may get a response later, I had a response before I had closed the app. Later that day she contacted me and I helped her with advice she needed. I have made a few good “friends” on here one, who I probably met 12 times before I was registered and who with a little help and encouragement is no longer working at Escorting, but we still meet when we can for coffee or lunch. But I see so many people complaining about not getting answers to p.m. lately, if someone takes a few minutes to pm or mail someone then why (assuming it was not stupid or weird pm) can ladies not take a few of their “precious” seconds to reply. (Jeez the only one who answers mine is Lucky Lu)!! This seems to be only site it happens on, and I am on the usual social media sites and a few work related but people always answer!! Although obviously, this is only sex related site I am logged into. People seem to have no time for anyone any more, or is it just me? young aspiring “actress/model” in Starbucks other night, just said YOLO instead of thanks, she was very surprised when I replied “you sure got that right honey”. But you never know what knocks someone over edge maybe if I had spent 5 more mins with guy other night or not taken break?? Who knows. But be nice to people and treat them the way, you would like to be treated regardless of creed, colour, sexual persuasion, or race, fuck we are all human, not pieces of shit on your shoes. Anyway ob. Finished going for dinner and beers with two stunning ladies who always turn heads who I have been friends with for over 30 yrs., one who is more than a friend, and I am lucky to have. Night folks, stay safe.

[KnickerSnifferDublin2016]

This is more of an observational post than for discussion. But do we really, know who our friends are or do we care? I spent 3 hours talking to a stranger Saturday morning, took a break for 2 mins and the guy turned lots of people’s lives to shit, So I needed to know someone was there, so I texted a “friend” on here at some ungodly hour sitting in the cat, thinking I may get a response later, I had a response before I had closed the app. Later that day she contacted me and I helped her with advice she needed. I have made a few good “friends” on here one, who I probably met 12 times before I was registered and who with a little help and encouragement is no longer working at Escorting, but we still meet when we can for coffee or lunch. But I see so many people complaining about not getting answers to p.m. lately, if someone takes a few minutes to pm or mail someone then why (assuming it was not stupid or weird pm) can ladies not take a few of their “precious” seconds to reply. (Jeez the only one who answers mine is Lucky Lu)!! This seems to be only site it happens on, and I am on the usual social media sites and a few work related but people always answer!! Although obviously, this is only sex related site I am logged into. People seem to have no time for anyone any more, or is it just me? young aspiring “actress/model” in Starbucks other night, just said YOLO instead of thanks, she was very surprised when I replied “you sure got that right honey”. But you never know what knocks someone over edge maybe if I had spent 5 more mins with guy other night or not taken break?? Who knows. But be nice to people and treat them the way, you would like to be treated regardless of creed, colour, sexual persuasion, or race, fuck we are all human, not pieces of shit on your shoes. Anyway ob. Finished going for dinner and beers with two stunning ladies who always turn heads who I have been friends with for over 30 yrs., one who is more than a friend, and I am lucky to have. Night folks, stay safe.

While escorts some in particular constantly moan about being stereotyped they are the first ones to stereotype clients, hence why so many of them dont bother their bollix replying to pm's and take appointments then dont answer the phone because they got another john quicker to the door. I have found a small minority of ladies do answer pm's and guess what they are the ones making good money. Invest in a few pm's with guys and you may get a good regular customer out of it. Some of the girls here have brains and business savvy and I have total respect for them they would have been successful in any career that had chosen, others meanwhile would barely be fit to scrub toilets yet demand to be treated with respect while treating clients like shit.

[tinytimintipp]

While escorts some in particular constantly moan about being stereotyped they are the first ones to stereotype clients, hence why so many of them dont bother their bollix replying to pm's and take appointments then dont answer the phone because they got another john quicker to the door. I have found a small minority of ladies do answer pm's and guess what they are the ones making good money. Invest in a few pm's with guys and you may get a good regular customer out of it. Some of the girls here have brains and business savvy and I have total respect for them they would have been successful in any career that had chosen, others meanwhile would barely be fit to scrub toilets yet demand to be treated with respect while treating clients like shit.

Everyone is entitled to express their opinion,,But i would not agree with the above,

[Irisherin27]

Everyone is entitled to express their opinion,,But i would not agree with the above,

There are definitely two sides to every story, I do not believe anyone should be treating anyone with anything less than the upmost respect. In my opinion you command respect based on how you treat others.
From a escorts perspective however, double booking does happen and although I'm not condoning it in anyway it gets really frustratingly annoying when you continuously turn down bookings only to have another no show. Clients take time out of their day and spend, sometimes very large amounts of cash visiting us, but for some of us this is our sole source of income. Most of us are not working so we can buy a new designer handbags, we are working to pay rent/mortgage, pay bills and put food on the tables. Therefore eventually we try to protect ourselves from no shows, and sometimes that means having a backup plan (as wrong as that may be)

[Best Before]

While escorts some in particular constantly moan about being stereotyped they are the first ones to stereotype clients, hence why so many of them dont bother their bollix replying to pm's and take appointments then dont answer the phone because they got another john quicker to the door. I have found a small minority of ladies do answer pm's and guess what they are the ones making good money. Invest in a few pm's with guys and you may get a good regular customer out of it. Some of the girls here have brains and business savvy and I have total respect for them they would have been successful in any career that had chosen, others meanwhile would barely be fit to scrub toilets yet demand to be treated with respect while treating clients like shit.

I have the utmost respect for Toilet attendants. There's not many that would do what they do.

[James f]

I think if you are nice and try to help people you are not meant to have friends. Unfortunately i learned this the hard way and now i find it hard to trust anyone. I dont talk to anyone and it really fucked me up over the years. To the point where i started think about dying and the only thing stopping me was the thought of my mum finding out. The only person that genuinely still cares about me.
At times like Christmas and birthdays I'm reminded how lonely and worthless life can be.

Anyway my lack of friends is why I began seeing girls from this site. They helped me so much and ive nothing but respect for what they do. If they dont respond to PMs just pick up the phone and call them as you most of them get alot of time wasters.

[lapd]

I think if you are nice and try to help people you are not meant to have friends. Unfortunately i learned this the hard way and now i find it hard to trust anyone. I dont talk to anyone and it really fucked me up over the years. To the point where i started think about dying and the only thing stopping me was the thought of my mum finding out. The only person that genuinely still cares about me.
At times like Christmas and birthdays I'm reminded how lonely and worthless life can be.

Anyway my lack of friends is why I began seeing girls from this site. They helped me so much and ive nothing but respect for what they do. If they dont respond to PMs just pick up the phone and call them as you most of them get alot of time wasters.

As sweet guy says there are some good people on here who will listen and not judge, you really need to talk to somebody, Christmas New Year can be a very lonely time for a lot of people.

If you had chest pains would you go to doctor ?? toothache go to Dentist ? depression is no different get some help.

[Petros]

I think if you are nice and try to help people you are not meant to have friends. Unfortunately i learned this the hard way and now i find it hard to trust anyone. I dont talk to anyone and it really fucked me up over the years. To the point where i started think about dying and the only thing stopping me was the thought of my mum finding out. The only person that genuinely still cares about me.
At times like Christmas and birthdays I'm reminded how lonely and worthless life can be.

Anyway my lack of friends is why I began seeing girls from this site. They helped me so much and ive nothing but respect for what they do. If they dont respond to PMs just pick up the phone and call them as you most of them get alot of time wasters.

James — I know exactly what you mean about being nice and helping people.... It's not that you are not meant to have friends, it's just that quite often those we help just don't appreciate our efforts but yet they become to expect our assistance as our normal duty. Some people see those who are nice and helpful as weak and so think they can take advantage. They can see the loneliness and use that for their gain.

What these people don't see is that being nice and helpful isn't being weak — it takes time, effort and courage to be nice and helpful — such a person is far from weak — without such people in this world it would be a really horrible place!

Our mothers are our backbone and you are right — they will back you up and care for you no matter what! You are lucky to have your mother in your corner. Unfortunately she won't be there in person forever — but she will be with you in your heart forever and you can't think of letting her down, either now or in the future! But the crazy thing is that she is not the only one who cares — there are other nice and helpful people out there and on here who also care! You may not see them, quite often they don't stand out from the crowd — but when push comes to shove they will be there for you! They will probably be the last people you'd expect too — that's what makes it crazy.

I know exactly how you feel at christmas and on birthdays — you see everyone else getting all excited about their birthday or about christmas. But when you are on your own those days are just like any other day of the week! No one wishes you a happy birthday or gives you a gift or offers to buy you a pint — then at christmas everyone goes mad shopping for presents etc. but none of them come your way — those presents are for other people — people they are trying to impress! Sure, it's easy to sit at a computer and order stuff off Amazon, wrap it up and give it to someone — way easier than being nice and helpful all your long and you need to remember this!

Don't get down — easier said than done I know! Just remember — there are plenty of people on here to talk to! You are not alone.

[James f]

James — I know exactly what you mean about being nice and helping people.... It's not that you are not meant to have friends, it's just that quite often those we help just don't appreciate our efforts but yet they become to expect our assistance as our normal duty. Some people see those who are nice and helpful as weak and so think they can take advantage. They can see the loneliness and use that for their gain.

What these people don't see is that being nice and helpful isn't being weak — it takes time, effort and courage to be nice and helpful — such a person is far from weak — without such people in this world it would be a really horrible place!

Our mothers are our backbone and you are right — they will back you up and care for you no matter what! You are lucky to have your mother in your corner. Unfortunately she won't be there in person forever — but she will be with you in your heart forever and you can't think of letting her down, either now or in the future! But the crazy thing is that she is not the only one who cares — there are other nice and helpful people out there and on here who also care! You may not see them, quite often they don't stand out from the crowd — but when push comes to shove they will be there for you! They will probably be the last people you'd expect too — that's what makes it crazy.

I know exactly how you feel at christmas and on birthdays — you see everyone else getting all excited about their birthday or about christmas. But when you are on your own those days are just like any other day of the week! No one wishes you a happy birthday or gives you a gift or offers to buy you a pint — then at christmas everyone goes mad shopping for presents etc. but none of them come your way — those presents are for other people — people they are trying to impress! Sure, it's easy to sit at a computer and order stuff off Amazon, wrap it up and give it to someone — way easier than being nice and helpful all your long and you need to remember this!

Don't get down — easier said than done I know! Just remember — there are plenty of people on here to talk to! You are not alone.

I don't know why but people I considered friends screwed me over in some way so I stopped caring. Instead I focused so much on work and that's all I would do. I would work up to 60+ hours Monday to Friday alone. I would take work home on the weekends and spend all day in front of the computer. I took on a job I wasn't ready for. Just two years out of college and I took on a senior position. I was terrified about failing so I kept at it. I enjoy what i do but i just overdid it to fill a void in my life.

[Petros]

I don't know why but people I considered friends screwed me over in some way so I stopped caring. Instead I focused so much on work and that's all I would do. I would work up to 60+ hours Monday to Friday alone. I would take work home on the weekends and spend all day in front of the computer. I took on a job I wasn't ready for. Just two years out of college and I took on a senior position. I was terrified about failing so I kept at it. I enjoy what i do but i just overdid it to fill a void in my life.

Unfortunately it happens that people who we consider good friends are not really as good as we first thought and we only learn this when it is too late. Because we consider them friends we allow things to proceed further then we would with a complete stranger. This is where one really gets hurt!