The Benefits of being an Escort

[adamski]

What constitutes a 'lot' to you? Are you talking all the ones who are working legally, as in the Irish ones and European? I am concerned that these ladies are renting out their 3 bedroomed houses while their 3 children are living there. Do they not make a noise when the client is there? How are they touring while they have children? Are they leaving them on their own? Which of course is a whole different kettle of fish and very worrying.

I was once called in to the Social Security office back in England and I was told that I should take a solicitor with me. Of course I was worried sick and didn't have a clue what was wrong. I had handed in my card to every person I had spoken to about my predicament and told them that I was attempting to establish a business, but at the moment I had no money, I was a single parent and had a house to pay for and asked if there was anything I could do. I was told that as long as I declare any earnings that was okay, but someone either forgot or didn't know the full story and decided I was committing fraud.

To say that they looked rather silly during the conversation while they were trying to prove me to be a fraud was rather funny. I had asked for a copy of the tape as I wanted to pass it on to a few people, but they didn't get back to me on that.

What I'm trying to say is don't make too many assumptions. I don't agree with earning good money without declaring it, but those women may be doing all they can to pay off debts, they may be doing what they can to be self sufficient. Having said that, if you feel these people are ripping off other honest people then it is your duty to report it and not moan about it on here. That I would consider to be highly unprofessional of you.

On a last note. Most people do not start being a Sex Worker so they can buy a Villa in Spain. They are doing it for their family and because they can't see any other way to make ends meet. That also includes extended family and people you know nothing about. Is it not better to do something and try to make things better, than to stagnate on the state and never be able to manage without?

Generalising and making assumptions I would imagine is not in the job description for you, but if you feel someone is doing wrong you SHOULD report them. We have enough stigma to put up with without you telling everyone we're ripping everyone off.

there seems to be a steady increase but if girls see other girls reaping the benefits than they are going to say, why cant i do it too, i'm not generalising as see it with my own two eyes what happening, its much worse that mainland and NI because the benefits here are much greater, job seekers allowance for example i believe is only 80 euro something while its near 190 s euro in Ireland

[Curvaceous Kate]

there seems to be a steady increase but if girls see other girls reaping the benefits than they are going to say, why cant i do it too, i'm not generalising as see it with my own two eyes what happening, its much worse that mainland and NI because the benefits here are much greater, job seekers allowance for example i believe is only 80 euro something while its near 190 s euro in Ireland

You are generalising, unless you work in every office across the board? You also are exaggerating, which is not helpful.

[adamski]

You are generalising, unless you work in every office across the board? You also are exaggerating, which is not helpful.

I work in 5 of the offices actually but cant speak for the rest but the larger counties i'm sure would have more even going on, it is common sense really

[Curvaceous Kate]

I work in 5 of the offices actually but cant speak for the rest but the larger counties i'm sure would have more even going on, it is common sense really

You never saw me there

So, just for future reference, if I come over you are not going to tell anyone that I'm committing fraud?

[redforever]

You never saw me there

So, just for future reference, if I come over you are not going to tell anyone that I'm committing fraud?

And if he visits you in belfast you won't report him for committing a crime

[Curvaceous Kate]

And if he visits you in belfast you won't report him for committing a crime

I reckon that ship has sailed lol x

[BuachaillCuthail]

I work in the social security office and have saw a lot of escorts in here claiming for everything under the sun, they are getting full jobseekers allowance, medical cards, child benefit for 3 children, free housing usually 3 bedroom which they sub let of course, Crèche fees paid,
Several of these tour and have good reviews and doing well charging €200 for the hour,
One I spoke too and who I was helping with forms etc told me a pack of lies, its amazing how the lies flow so smoothly from their mouths.
They didn’t recognise me but its ripping off the system and I cant say very much as visit they girls and their friends.
When you add the benefits they are claiming its huge and along with their escorting job its staggering. Its more common than people realise, They are all at it

I need to get, fit, lose about 4stone, do some exercise, to much time spent on the tractor, visitin escorts has now become bit of a strugle, i enjoy it,, its ok when shes on top but when i have to get behind and do some work i get poofed out after a few minutes, and need to catch me breathe and tats takin it slow to.
Maybe time to stop visitin til i get bit fiter, any1 else in the same boat

Have you changed jobs adamski? From a farmer in a tractor to a form filler in a social security office? (whatever a social security office is?) How is your weight loss coming on now that you are working in the social security office?

Surely anyone claiming benefit off the state would go to a Social Welfare Office? But then I seriously doubt that anyone who works in a Social Welfare Office is going to post that they do so on here, let alone are they going to be able to recognise every escort working in the country. Having said that I'd be more inclined to believe a Welfare Officer than a farmer turned security officer about who is claiming what off the state.

I have bean usin windows xp for a while now, am not grate with cumputers and stil learin, i fine windows xp handy to use but crashs om me sumbody mentioned go for windows 7 or beter stil windows 8. what yas think

Do you have to use a computer in the social security office? What OS do you use?

[annabel taylor]

Have you changed jobs adamski? From a farmer in a tractor to a form filler in a social security office? (whatever a social security office is?) How is your weight loss coming on now that you are working in the social security office?

Surely anyone claiming benefit off the state would go to a Social Welfare Office? But then I seriously doubt that anyone who works in a Social Welfare Office is going to post that they do so on here, let alone are they going to be able to recognise every escort working in the country. Having said that I'd be more inclined to believe a Welfare Officer than a farmer turned security officer about who is claiming what off the state.




Do you have to use a computer in the social security office? What OS do you use?

That made me slightly wet

[adamski]

Have you changed jobs adamski? From a farmer in a tractor to a form filler in a social security office? (whatever a social security office is?) How is your weight loss coming on now that you are working in the social security office?

Surely anyone claiming benefit off the state would go to a Social Welfare Office? But then I seriously doubt that anyone who works in a Social Welfare Office is going to post that they do so on here, let alone are they going to be able to recognise every escort working in the country. Having said that I'd be more inclined to believe a Welfare Officer than a farmer turned security officer about who is claiming what off the state.




Do you have to use a computer in the social security office? What OS do you use?

I always farmed, was left to me but always had a full time job too. You really think I would give up a good job and pension. You can work both you know