bootworshiper. like you I have one experience in my past that I feel very uneasy about. It was a long time ago and my very first incall and all the signs were there that the lady was very controlled but I didn't realise that untill I had a few calls under my belt.
I went back a few weeks later to see if I could recognise the place with the intention of reporting my experience but they were moved on, heard that gardai were involved. Within a very short walk there were at least 6 other places still operating but that one had been shut down. Nothing I could do at that stage but decide to be more careful who and where I visited in future. Just glad that I was very much into older women at the time and that it wasn't an underage lady.
My wife caught me wearing ladies underwear and threatened to leave me.
So I packed up all her clothes
And left.