Death grip syndrome

[FatBastard]

go for a softer style blow job you need to get your sensitivity back, let the lips softly massage your shaft in a relaxed way instead of the usual roughness of her mouth fucking your cock

See that's what I've been thinking, but now I'm stuck in that I don't want to wait so long between visits (because who wants to wait, eh?), but I do want to wait long enough to get the sensitivity back. Maybe I'll go a couple of times and just massage or something, no touchey down there at all.

[funlover12]

See that's what I've been thinking, but now I'm stuck in that I don't want to wait so long between visits (because who wants to wait, eh?), but I do want to wait long enough to get the sensitivity back. Maybe I'll go a couple of times and just massage or something, no touchey down there at all.

get a fleshlight, that way you control the 'massaging' effect and can tease yourself and reverse taper yourself back to clunge again with time and patience. I heard they have a VERY realistic feeling

[FatBastard]

I looked at them and the advertising spiel that says the same, but I reckon no self service whatsoever should be the way to go.

But it's hard as fuck (pardon the pun) to go cold turkey from a habit of at least once a day for 15+ years, even finding myself waking up with my chopper in my hand before I catch myself on

[funlover12]

seriously get one, you dont want to fix your sex life for the cost of an average punt here?

[FatBastard]

seriously get one, you dont want to fix your sex life for the cost of an average punt here?

What I was meaning is, rather than still whacking it with a flashlight it's still whacking it. I'm thinking extended periods of no sexual release may work out better. That or I'll chew my arm off trying to hold myself back

Also I don't see many £45 punts! Not for the length of time I prefer to spend with a lady anyway

[funlover12]

What I was meaning is, rather than still whacking it with a flashlight it's still whacking it. I'm thinking extended periods of no sexual release may work out better. That or I'll chew my arm off trying to hold myself back

but it isnt, it actually feels better than most pussy youll ever have, no joking, if anything you may end up trading your death grip for a fleshlight instead! substitution of addiction ... but then once able to shoot again then you go back to the real thing with escorts, its mediation to get you back to fucking for real

[FatBastard]

if anything you may end up trading your death grip for a fleshlight instead!

I can see it now on the phone making a booking:

"Any requests?"

Yeah can you hold this fleshlight between your thy's to let me go at it as Im addicted to it now

[TonyB]

Everyone is different, but when I over do it I generally go for a massage and I especially like the ladies providing massage that also provide sex.
I could recommend one lady in particular that may be able to help you, but unfortunately she's in Dublin.
https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html
And these ladies are also very nice
https://www.escort-ireland.com/eroti...e-massage.html
https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html


Physically get her on top, mentally you need to figure out what you can imagine to help.
But I accept that's how my brain works and we are all different.

Sorry I've no better ideas

[FatBastard]

Cheers for that bud, I think that's a good call.

Physically get her on top, mentally you need to figure out what you can imagine to help.
But I accept that's how my brain works and we are all different.

I need to meditate or somehow train myself not to be thinking "Holy shit she's up there cowgirl this is hot as fuck look at that body look at that face omg this is great why am I not climaxing why am I not getting close FUCK whats wrong with me why is this not working I almost blew when she put the condom on what the fuck is wrong with me SHIT I'm out of steam need to stop soon this is humialiating" the entire time

[TonyB]

I need to meditate or somehow train myself not to be thinking "Holy shit she's up there cowgirl this is hot as fuck look at that body look at that face omg this is great why am I not climaxing why am I not getting close FUCK whats wrong with me why is this not working I almost blew when she put the condom on what the fuck is wrong with me SHIT I'm out of steam need to stop soon this is humialiating" the entire time

I think you need to book a decent escort, and explain the issue. Then visit her and if it happens it happens, and if it doesn't then get her to blow you.
Take the pressure off. You don't have to perform, that's her job.