If a man is attracted to ts does that make him gay?

[dave028]

I understand what you are saying.
Again me, the devil's advocate I will look and try to understand both sides.

You see some people are more sensitive than others when it comes to this topic, cause although it is XXI century, they not necessarily had it so easy to become who they are and they are used to defending themselves. Simply cause they had to.

They might have been subject to abuse in school, at the playgrounds, bullying, all because of who they are.
They might have been told by their parents or their religious leaders that what they feel it is wrong and they had to undergo an internal struggle.

For you it might have been easier. You always knew, you never had to doubt or question yourself.

Maybe that is why this topic for some people means more and brings more emotions to the table.

That is why it is always a heated discussion.
Which of course is good, life would be boring if everyone just agreed with each other all the time.

I can relate to the internal struggle took me a little time before I could admit to myself that I find some guys attractive.It's easy to say who gives a fuck now,looking back I feel silly caring so much about what people would think of me but maybe it's just the way society has us conditioned.

[LuckyLu]

I can relate to the internal struggle took me a little time before I could admit to myself that I find some guys attractive.It's easy to say who gives a fuck now,looking back I feel silly caring so much about what people would think of me but maybe it's just the way society has us conditioned.

same here
when I was younger I felt ashamed to hold my girlfriend's hand, as if I was doing something wrong...
I come from mid-size town and people there were very judgmental.
I was terrified thinking that someone could see us and tell my parents.
And I was 20 at the time...

[dave028]

same here
when I was younger I felt ashamed to hold my girlfriend's hand, as if I was doing something wrong...
I come from mid-size town and people there were very judgmental.
I was terrified thinking that someone could see us and tell my parents.
And I was 20 at the time...

Yes the feeling of doing something wrong even tho it feels right is such a mind fuck.I'm a lot happier now that i've tried somethings like being with a guy or with a ts girl i'm glad i won't be old and wondering what might have been.

[ezio1986]

The way I see it is if you are attracted to someone of the same sex as you then you are gay/homosexual. I'm attracted to women not men. I don't look at someone's genitals before deciding if I'm attracted to them but if I am attracted to them then what's between their legs doesn't put me off either. A few here for some reason feel the need to label people while at the same time telling them not to care what label is being put on them. How about you stop putting labels on people?

I don't identify as gay but if you feel the need to label me that then I don't care. When I look at someone like Laura Boldrini or Renatha I see a beautiful woman, not a man. If you tell me that means I can't identify as straight then you are saying they can't identify as female. I don't agree with that.

When I object to being called gay that doesn't mean I have a problem with gay people, I don't, I have friends from school that are gay. I'm from the north so people could label me British and yes technically I could apply for and get a British passport but I wouldn't, not because I have a problem with British people, I don't but because I'm Irish not British. I don't identify as British or gay.

In the end though if someone came up to me in the street and called me gay and British only one of those labels could earn them a punch in the face and its not gay.

[dave028]

The way I see it is if you are attracted to someone of the same sex as you then you are gay/homosexual. I'm attracted to women not men. I don't look at someone's genitals before deciding if I'm attracted to them but if I am attracted to them then what's between their legs doesn't put me off either. A few here for some reason feel the need to label people while at the same time telling them not to care what label is being put on them. How about you stop putting labels on people?

I don't identify as gay but if you feel the need to label me that then I don't care. When I look at someone like Laura Boldrini or Renatha I see a beautiful woman, not a man. If you tell me that means I can't identify as straight then you are saying they can't identify as female. I don't agree with that.

When I object to being called gay that doesn't mean I have a problem with gay people, I don't, I have friends from school that are gay. I'm from the north so people could label me British and yes technically I could apply for and get a British passport but I wouldn't, not because I have a problem with British people, I don't but because I'm Irish not British. I don't identify as British or gay.

In the end though if someone came up to me in the street and called me gay and British only one of those labels could earn them a punch in the face and its not gay.

Hello fellow north resident lol I wish we had more TS escorts up here them dublin folk dont know how good they have it.

[ezio1986]

Hello fellow north resident lol I wish we had more TS escorts up here them dublin folk dont know how good they have it.

I know. Lucky bastards.

[dave028]

I know. Lucky bastards.

I think i'll have to plan a trip down sometime

[GorErotica]

no reason to feel ashamed of being BISEXUAL

[GorErotica]

lol HARD LUCK FAM

[ts-shemale-rammer]

Sorry for my previous cynical response was lazy to explain but now i'm in da mood. As a genuine ts who has been living as pre op transsexual for over 20 years, here is my opinion.

Technically yes cock is a male organ and for those who having sex male to male will be labelled as homosexual and if you having sex with TV, yes you can still be labelled as gay because they are boys in girls clothes, HOWEVER transsexual is NOT A MAN because we live as girl 24/7 despite we still have cock. We are just girls with extra package or girls with cock.

What is strap on? Does it resemble penis shape? What is your sexuality if you love strap on? Ask yourself why on earth that strap on ever exist in this century? Before was just dildo and now strap on. Who knows what is the next toys in the future.

Does it make you gay if you enjoying sex with ordinary girl with strap on?
If your answer is YES, may i know why?
If your answer is NO, i'd just say GOOD BOY!

I consider a man as heterosexual when/if he attracted to female and ts BUT i consider him as Bi if he attracted to ordinary girl and ts but at the same time he attracted to tv, crossdresser and dragqueen.

To explain everything regarding about TS will be never ending story and complicated with lots of confusions to comprehend. I have no idea how many times i have explained these in my entire life. I'm disappointed because there is still not many guys who love ts have the guts to hang out with us in open public. As for myself, private meeting meaning only for business.

Fuck labelling yourself and be what you are! If you brave enough, GET OUT OF THE CLOSET AND DON'T BE SHY! Peoples change, so as your desires but the most important is, YOU'RE HAPPY