I don't see how mine comes across as worse. Most people know about skin conditions and are able to see the difference. It is degrading to suggest otherwise. If me picking up on this is bad, then sorry I don't give a shit. Why do people keep talking about us like a collective? We are people first and sex workers second.
You don't ask the question... 'How do you get an engineer to understand they have to knock the door before entering' just because you may have had one person who happened to be an engineer try to get in without knocking. That would be absurd.
I'm actually surprised you think this is ok.
Still you live and learn.