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You Motherboating Son of a B****.
There is a difference between 'fetish' and 'kinky'. A fetish is when you crave something and get excited by it. You can't 'make yourself' feel a fetish. You either have it or you don't. I have a fetish for boots. I adore them and wear them 90% of the time in my regular life. I don't feel like me without them. It's part of who I am. You can have a fetish about most things and they are not always sexually linked. Someone who likes to dress up as a dog could be said to have a fetish for that, but it may not turn them on sexually, as much as make them feel complete.
A kink however does tend to be sexually related and is generally considered to be something that is not 'regular' or classed to be the 'norm'. For some anal play would be classed as kinky. It might be thought of as kinky to snowball, dress up in leather or latex or rub baked beans on to breasts and lick them off. It's something that is a bit unusual and not mainstream.
Then of course you have the next level which is in the house of BDSM and involves control and submission, pain and pleasure.
Maybe have a think about what it is that interests you, if there is something that turns you on, but you haven't really investigated it much yet. You could experiment a little and see if it is something that would 'spice' things up for you, or is it just a novelty?
Sometimes it is good to try new things just to see it you enjoy it or not, but if you are considering doing this with a sex worker, it is a good idea to let them know that this is you pushing your boundaries a little and having a plan B should it not be your cup of tea.
Anitafan (22-06-16)
Well I reckon that the fact that I was not into orgies or bestialiaty made me vanilla!!
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Kinky and freaky... I'll take that