Time paid for v orgasms.

[Spanky Panky]

Ok, I admit it, I have an extremely sensitive cock. I'm unsure if its a blessing or an infliction though, as I'm one of these lads who can cum inside the first five minutes, but after a brief recovery period, I'm good to go again, usually climaxing in the next five to ten minutes again.

I usually explain this to girls when I initiate the phone call, explaining that I cum quickly, but what I like, is maybe a hand, or blow job at the beginning of appointment to point of climax, (and get it out of the way) then maybe a quick massage so I can recover, then some sex in the last say fifteen minutes of the meeting.

I guess my question is to punters and ladies alike, do you think this is normal/fair?

To be fair, most girls have no issue with it, in so long as i understand that I have a 30min appointment.

Others tell me I can cum once then I must leave.

Surely paying for a 30min appointment should mean getting thirty minutes of time? Prices paid are based on time with the lady, not orgasm based?

With my cumming capabilities, I think its a bit pointless paying 80-100€ for an appointment I will be shown the door from, five minutes in because have climaxed?

Interested to hear opinions from others on this.

Thanks.

Everyone is different but I think to be fair if you expect to come twice you should book for an hour. Ladies might have bad experiences before where other clients thought they could come twice in half an hour and ended up overstaying, or the lady had to work every trick in the book to make it happen. This might then reflect on her attitude to you in your appointment with her, even if that may seem unfair.
Have you thought about knocking one out yourself, then showering and going to visit a lady?
Just for your own experience and skill in bed as a guy it might be worth practising trying not to come for as long as possible that first time. It will make your own orgasm more powerful. Everyone is different I know and I don't mean this post to be lecturing in any way, merely some advice.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Everyone is different but I think to be fair if you expect to come twice you should book for an hour. Ladies might have bad experiences before where other clients thought they could come twice in half an hour and ended up overstaying, or the lady had to work every trick in the book to make it happen. This might then reflect on her attitude to you in your appointment with her, even if that may seem unfair.
Have you thought about knocking one out yourself, then showering and going to visit a lady?
Just for your own experience and skill in bed as a guy it might be worth practising trying not to come for as long as possible that first time. It will make your own orgasm more powerful. Everyone is different I know and I don't mean this post to be lecturing in any way, merely some advice.

I don't really understand what the problem is. I know if I was a guy and was the one booking for fun I would cum in the first 5 minutes, as it's the whole hype and anticipation thing. I'd be very disappointed if that meant I had to leave after wards or couldn't do it again, even though I know I would be able to given the right stimulation. That doesn't mean I'm going to be expecting more time than I paid for, so why make that assumption?

It's swings and roundabouts. Some guys can't cum whatever, some find it very hard and it's a hit and miss thing. No one gives them more time because they didn't cum at all, so why it should work in the reverse I do not know?

I think with some sex workers their rate of pay is so low then it may be an expectation, as they need to work more to make their money back, but that doesn't necessarily follow either from what is said on here.

We are all different, there is no rule book. You will just have to ask each person and eventually you will find a few that you enjoy spending time with and spend more time with them, than keep moving on to the unexpected. Least that seems to be what a lot of the other guys do.

Oh and ignore the 'leave it as long as possible thing'. It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that. You either do it yourself before the booking or you find someone who can accommodate your needs, but trying to do what you can't is just going to add pressure and take away from the fun.

[ilovepussy123]

I don't really understand what the problem is. I know if I was a guy and was the one booking for fun I would cum in the first 5 minutes, as it's the whole hype and anticipation thing. I'd be very disappointed if that meant I had to leave after wards or couldn't do it again, even though I know I would be able to given the right stimulation. That doesn't mean I'm going to be expecting more time than I paid for, so why make that assumption?

It's swings and roundabouts. Some guys can't cum whatever, some find it very hard and it's a hit and miss thing. No one gives them more time because they didn't cum at all, so why it should work in the reverse I do not know?

I think with some sex workers their rate of pay is so low then it may be an expectation, as they need to work more to make their money back, but that doesn't necessarily follow either from what is said on here.

We are all different, there is no rule book. You will just have to ask each person and eventually you will find a few that you enjoy spending time with and spend more time with them, than keep moving on to the unexpected. Least that seems to be what a lot of the other guys do.

Oh and ignore the 'leave it as long as possible thing'. It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that. You either do it yourself before the booking or you find someone who can accommodate your needs, but trying to do what you can't is just going to add pressure and take away from the fun.

well said hun

[Spanky Panky]

I don't really understand what the problem is. I know if I was a guy and was the one booking for fun I would cum in the first 5 minutes, as it's the whole hype and anticipation thing. I'd be very disappointed if that meant I had to leave after wards or couldn't do it again, even though I know I would be able to given the right stimulation. That doesn't mean I'm going to be expecting more time than I paid for, so why make that assumption?

It's swings and roundabouts. Some guys can't cum whatever, some find it very hard and it's a hit and miss thing. No one gives them more time because they didn't cum at all, so why it should work in the reverse I do not know?

I think with some sex workers their rate of pay is so low then it may be an expectation, as they need to work more to make their money back, but that doesn't necessarily follow either from what is said on here.

We are all different, there is no rule book. You will just have to ask each person and eventually you will find a few that you enjoy spending time with and spend more time with them, than keep moving on to the unexpected. Least that seems to be what a lot of the other guys do.

Oh and ignore the 'leave it as long as possible thing'. It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that. You either do it yourself before the booking or you find someone who can accommodate your needs, but trying to do what you can't is just going to add pressure and take away from the fun.

I don't think I suggested there was a problem, and twice in my post I did say we are all different. The rest I was merely giving what I thought was some helpful advice but it seems to have annoyed you.
I'm not sure what you mean by "It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that". We haven't met.

I know different people want different things from their dates with escorts. Some may want to become better in bed. Part of that is learning how to better control and time your own orgasm as you can't play pool with a rope. It was only some advice I wasn't trying to find fault with the guy but it may have come across that way to you. That wasn't my intention.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I don't think I suggested there was a problem, and twice in my post I did say we are all different. The rest I was merely giving what I thought was some helpful advice but it seems to have annoyed you.
I'm not sure what you mean by "It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that". We haven't met.

I know different people want different things from their dates with escorts. Some may want to become better in bed. Part of that is learning how to better control and time your own orgasm as you can't play pool with a rope. It was only some advice I wasn't trying to find fault with the guy but it may have come across that way to you. That wasn't my intention.

I quoted your post because I did refer to some of the things you said, like try and hold back for example, but on the whole it was general and not pointed at you. You can say what you like on here, but then it is open to interpretation and response, the same as my post was and you have responded to it.

When you say about learning to control your orgasm. Not everyone is able to and it doesn't matter how old you are or it could be a medical condition. Surely if the OP was able to control it he would be, so it's a bit silly to suggest he should do that, as it obviously isn't an option.

The other side of it, is that maybe he doesn't want to? I mean if he is like me and can cum several times in a short period of time, then why not embrace that and enjoy it? It's tiring for the sex worker to have to cum several times and as they maybe seeing other people then in all honesty it's easier to have a guy cum several times than to entertain a guy that insists that we should cum several times. It's also easier to be with a guy who gets results quickly than one who finds it very hard to cum and you can't help wonder if they might be disappointed if they don't, even if they reassure you it's not a problem. (again I can only speak for myself on that one).

I'm not here to put other people down, so please don't take my posts in that way. I was just saying how I feel about the topic. I'm lucky enough to have met a lot of guys in the years I've been working and have experience which leads to my opinions. Some guys can't change the way their body works and it's as simple as that.

Just to clarify. Only my last paragraph refers to your post, where you say he should try and hold back. With regards to your post here. I would suggest that cumming more than once does not make you bad in bed, in fact quite the reverse. Nothing worse than having a guy stop on you because he came and you're still wanting to have some fun (in a regular setting). He's not saying that he cums quick and it's all over, he is saying he cums quick and he can recharge and get back to it shortly after.

As we have both said, we are all different. Like for me if a guy can't kiss properly, I would find that more disappointing or the one that 'shoots and goes'. They seem to be the worse as they will plague you with texts trying to find out what you are going to wear, what will you do them and try and book you for a long time saying they will do this and do that and the reality is very different and the second they cum, they need to go, like clockwork. It's very hard to form a bond with someone like that. (for me anyway).

Still not referring directly to you on this by the way, as you say, we've never meet and not likely to either.

[funlover12]

has no one asked what a v orgasm is no?

ok I will then