Time paid for v orgasms.

[gonzo76]

i like them in and out.....unless they have interesting conversation ...

I'd be gone in a flash so, I'm an awfully boring conversationalist!

[Curvaceous Kate]

I don't think I suggested there was a problem, and twice in my post I did say we are all different. The rest I was merely giving what I thought was some helpful advice but it seems to have annoyed you.
I'm not sure what you mean by "It's easy for someone who is not in your position to say that". We haven't met.

I know different people want different things from their dates with escorts. Some may want to become better in bed. Part of that is learning how to better control and time your own orgasm as you can't play pool with a rope. It was only some advice I wasn't trying to find fault with the guy but it may have come across that way to you. That wasn't my intention.

I quoted your post because I did refer to some of the things you said, like try and hold back for example, but on the whole it was general and not pointed at you. You can say what you like on here, but then it is open to interpretation and response, the same as my post was and you have responded to it.

When you say about learning to control your orgasm. Not everyone is able to and it doesn't matter how old you are or it could be a medical condition. Surely if the OP was able to control it he would be, so it's a bit silly to suggest he should do that, as it obviously isn't an option.

The other side of it, is that maybe he doesn't want to? I mean if he is like me and can cum several times in a short period of time, then why not embrace that and enjoy it? It's tiring for the sex worker to have to cum several times and as they maybe seeing other people then in all honesty it's easier to have a guy cum several times than to entertain a guy that insists that we should cum several times. It's also easier to be with a guy who gets results quickly than one who finds it very hard to cum and you can't help wonder if they might be disappointed if they don't, even if they reassure you it's not a problem. (again I can only speak for myself on that one).

I'm not here to put other people down, so please don't take my posts in that way. I was just saying how I feel about the topic. I'm lucky enough to have met a lot of guys in the years I've been working and have experience which leads to my opinions. Some guys can't change the way their body works and it's as simple as that.

Just to clarify. Only my last paragraph refers to your post, where you say he should try and hold back. With regards to your post here. I would suggest that cumming more than once does not make you bad in bed, in fact quite the reverse. Nothing worse than having a guy stop on you because he came and you're still wanting to have some fun (in a regular setting). He's not saying that he cums quick and it's all over, he is saying he cums quick and he can recharge and get back to it shortly after.

As we have both said, we are all different. Like for me if a guy can't kiss properly, I would find that more disappointing or the one that 'shoots and goes'. They seem to be the worse as they will plague you with texts trying to find out what you are going to wear, what will you do them and try and book you for a long time saying they will do this and do that and the reality is very different and the second they cum, they need to go, like clockwork. It's very hard to form a bond with someone like that. (for me anyway).

Still not referring directly to you on this by the way, as you say, we've never meet and not likely to either.

[skollywally]

This is a big ask in 30mins, If you did it the other way round, as in sex and bj first, then hand job for round 2, then maybe it would be possible. But in my case I would never have penetrative or oral sex with someone that had already cum, as I always insist on another shower in between cums.

I have a few guys that visit and its, shower, fuck cum, shower, fuck cum, shower. And even then I don't see how we could also get a massage in to, all in the half hour.

You may be better to book for an hour apt and take your time to enjoy it.

He might want to think about having a wank beforehand

[annabel taylor]

This is a big ask in 30mins, If you did it the other way round, as in sex and bj first, then hand job for round 2, then maybe it would be possible. But in my case I would never have penetrative or oral sex with someone that had already cum, as I always insist on another shower in between cums.

I have a few guys that visit and its, shower, fuck cum, shower, fuck cum, shower. And even then I don't see how we could also get a massage in to, all in the half hour.

You may be better to book for an hour apt and take your time to enjoy it.

Why would you get a massage in like

It's gfe not a geisha like

[Curvaceous Kate]

Why would you get a massage in like

It's gfe not a geisha like

lol got to lean with you on that one. I don't mind doing a quick massage if I have to, but to me that is not normal for a gf/bf scenario. Maybe on a special occasion like a birthday, if he's lucky lol

[annabel taylor]

lol got to lean with you on that one. I don't mind doing a quick massage if I have to, but to me that is not normal for a gf/bf scenario. Maybe on a special occasion like a birthday, if he's lucky lol

Very very lucky Kate I'd say

[funlover12]

has no one asked what a v orgasm is no?

ok I will then

[philipkntz]

Ok, I admit it, I have an extremely sensitive cock.

I share your pain, mine sometimes sulks for hours.

[Okeydokey69u]

Not all heros wear capes