I don't think the clients I have seen tend to pick me out in that way. Most of them come to me not because I'm beautiful or because they think they can use me, but because they like what I have written, that I evidently enjoy what I do and am present. I think that the type of person who comes to me is looking for a mutual experience and an expectation that I will be wanting as much from them as I will give and if it was a last resort, then likely their ego would be so low that they would not put themselves through that and be happier with someone who has no expectations.
That is not me bragging by the way, that is just my perception. They not looking for the 'woman they could never get' in real life, because likely I'm the kind many would date in real life, but they are looking for more than just sex, without the worry of what an affair may bring with it (as in bunnies being boiled).
Of course I could be totally wrong, but then most of my clients have met me several times and many for years, so I guess there must be some kind of connection going on there?
F-Dub (20-05-16)
Cortez (20-05-16)
If you listen to women talk the general consensus seems to be that it is easier to forgive a transaction that didn't involve emotion a lot more than a relationship, as relationships tend to involve a lot more than just sex. If what is said is true and not just bravado it would be fair to conclude that the majority of women would find it easier to forgive their partner seeing a sex worker yes. I'm guessing this is due to there not being sex or irregular sex for some reason within the relationship, so they take on part of the blame, or it could be that it is less of a betrayal than giving your heart to someone else?
You are a brave man to be on here Not Tyler Burden if you feel your wife would not forgive you. Why would you take that risk with that knowledge?
Willie wacker I'm not sure what you mean really. I am going by 7 years of first hand experience and my life is not a fantasy and my work takes up a large part of my life. I don't think any body could be 'pretending' all the time. I can't answer for other sex workers and am only ever talking on behalf of myself. It's people putting us in boxes that create the problems. They assume we are all the same and suffering the same plight. This is not the case. No two people are the same and there is no rule book. Some might have picked up things if they have worked for others, but many like myself have never worked for anyone in this job and take things the way that come naturally. You learn as you go along. I find it hard to do 'make believe' and prefer to keep as close to the truth as possible.
I hope you enjoyed your pint.
Finally, he decided to marry the one with the biggest breasts.
So much for Silly Cone.