ClarkKent and ShadowEmpress

[David Feckem]

Well we just finished our third adventure; wow what an experience! Liliana and Mrs Shadow certainly got along well, I think it's safe to say we are very much looking forward to future adventures

Liliana looks very sexy, ShadowEmpress has impeccable taste.

I've a question but it might be awkward so feel free to swerve it or ignore it if you both wish.
What's new is usually exciting and in long term relationships the sex does change after a while. In many ways it gets better but in another way, some of the initial giddy excitement can fade. So does Clark feel that he has to tone down his excitement at being with a new woman in front of Shadow out of consideration to her. In case Shadow might think, he doesn't look at me like that any more.

I'm still wondering how to answer this, I would definitely consider myself bicurious or if you want to get fancy "heteroflexible" although I don't necessarily identify as bisexual. Maybe I will change my mind on that later, and I guess that depends on your definition of bisexual too. I can be very sexually attracted to a woman, but at the same time it's not the first automatic reaction I have to women either. There is also a whole other turn-on involved with being in a threesome too, so there can be a difference in how I feel in that scenario vs. me with just a woman. (I happen to like having my partner involved in some capacity!) I won't expand on that more unless people are curious, I have thought about it a lot so I'm not sure if you want to hear all about my psychological introspection haha.

As far as did we know before our marriage, it depends. Had you asked me then when Clark and I first met was I bi, I would have said no. But at the same time, I had women start hitting on me already when I was a teenager, and they continued to hit on me even when literally out on dates with Clark, so the idea was sort of planted in a way. It would be hard to experience that for years without either of us thinking, "well, maybe these other ladies are on to something.."

Have you started to change at all after starting this; would you one day think you might like a booking with an escort even if Clark wasn't involved?
Do the two of you ever look at civilian ladies now and look at each other to say she'd be our type if she was an escort.

Do feel free to ignore the questions if they are too personal.

[ladiesman217]

Liliana looks very sexy, ShadowEmpress has impeccable taste.

I've a question but it might be awkward so feel free to swerve it or ignore it if you both wish.
What's new is usually exciting and in long term relationships the sex does change after a while. In many ways it gets better but in another way, some of the initial giddy excitement can fade. So does Clark feel that he has to tone down his excitement at being with a new woman in front of Shadow out of consideration to her. In case Shadow might think, he doesn't look at me like that any more.



Have you started to change at all after starting this; would you one day think you might like a booking with an escort even if Clark wasn't involved?
Do the two of you ever look at civilian ladies now and look at each other to say she'd be our type if she was an escort.

Do feel free to ignore the questions if they are too personal.

All very good questions.... BUT!

I feel like it is time we addressed the elephant in the room......

ClarkKent...........................

How does LoisLane feel about you cheating on her with women that is not LanaLang??????

[ClarkKent]

Liliana looks very sexy, ShadowEmpress has impeccable taste.

I've a question but it might be awkward so feel free to swerve it or ignore it if you both wish.
What's new is usually exciting and in long term relationships the sex does change after a while. In many ways it gets better but in another way, some of the initial giddy excitement can fade. So does Clark feel that he has to tone down his excitement at being with a new woman in front of Shadow out of consideration to her. In case Shadow might think, he doesn't look at me like that any more.



Have you started to change at all after starting this; would you one day think you might like a booking with an escort even if Clark wasn't involved?
Do the two of you ever look at civilian ladies now and look at each other to say she'd be our type if she was an escort.

Do feel free to ignore the questions if they are too personal.

No worries. I will answer from my pov. Firstly, our sex life has been awesome even before we joined this site. We weren't in a slump or anything, this wasn't supposed to "fix" any problem. I think because we are so open and honest with each other, we are able to avoid those kind of jealous tendencies. I'm crazy about her and she knows it! I think that with a threesome it is certainly an interesting dynamic, something of a balancing act. Both of us are concerned for the other; we don't want to seem like we are hogging all the fun. What makes this work really well is that we are both very giving lovers. And let's not forget about the escort! How much pressure has that got to be, to have some random couple enter into an intimate adventure with them?? They don't know what our marriage, our relationship is like. Maybe I pressured the Mrs into this, maybe there's some hidden resentment, maybe the wife will freak out or this will turn into a huge fight. Stressful!

What's important is that we are open and honest with each other. We are both very caring people, both emotionally and sexually. With the positive encounters we have had with ladies here, I'd like to think they very quickly pick up on this positive vibe, and that makes it a lot easier for all parties to have fun.

I don't think we would ever look into booking an escort "solo". That's crossing a line neither of us has a desire to cross, and our adventures are quite satisfying already! There's a lot of fun things to be done with three people

[ClarkKent]

All very good questions.... BUT!

I feel like it is time we addressed the elephant in the room......

ClarkKent...........................

How does LoisLane feel about you cheating on her with women that is not LanaLang??????

Lois thinks I'm in Smallville doing farmer stuff so it's all good.

[ShadowEmpress]

Liliana looks very sexy, ShadowEmpress has impeccable taste.

I've a question but it might be awkward so feel free to swerve it or ignore it if you both wish.
What's new is usually exciting and in long term relationships the sex does change after a while. In many ways it gets better but in another way, some of the initial giddy excitement can fade. So does Clark feel that he has to tone down his excitement at being with a new woman in front of Shadow out of consideration to her. In case Shadow might think, he doesn't look at me like that any more.


Have you started to change at all after starting this; would you one day think you might like a booking with an escort even if Clark wasn't involved?
Do the two of you ever look at civilian ladies now and look at each other to say she'd be our type if she was an escort.

Do feel free to ignore the questions if they are too personal.

I know Clark is answering from his point of view, but I guess this is my take on it too since some of this is directed at me as well. I think for us it has been easier in a sense that prior to our new adventures, we were still in a very happy state in our relationship. Yes, of course once you've been together for as long as we have, you end up developing, let's say, "favorites"... But we've always made an effort to devote energy to our relationship. We try our best to keep "dating" each other I would say if anything we have the opposite situation, I'm the one telling him if he doesn't stop harassing me for 10 seconds, then dinner is never going to get finished and we are both going to starve to death haha. So no, for us this isn't an issue.

For both of us, our first preference is to have the other involved, rather than being one-on-one with a new party. If I feel like he would be bothered by something, it is actually a turn off for me... It's not a trust issue, it would be more of whoever hypothetically was going solo with a new party being too worried about the other to enjoy the experience. So it's not so much that I would be uncomfortable with another woman, but I would be uncomfortable just knowing there was even the potential he wasn't thrilled about the situation somehow. Even if his involvement was just watching, I like having the reassurance that he is enjoying what is going on.

As far as civilians go, unless we were participating in a very particular type of event, we don't necessarily go around just checking everybody out. If we are going out on a date together, we are probably focused on each other! We do talk about celebrity crushes though, especially if we happen to have any ladies in common

[Vitruvian]

The world is not black and white
I once posted that, I like to keep things simple so I just fall in love every time.

Most took in jest !!
I didn't..

[David Feckem]

No worries. I will answer from my pov. Firstly, our sex life has been awesome even before we joined this site. We weren't in a slump or anything, this wasn't supposed to "fix" any problem. I think because we are so open and honest with each other, we are able to avoid those kind of jealous tendencies. I'm crazy about her and she knows it! I think that with a threesome it is certainly an interesting dynamic, something of a balancing act. Both of us are concerned for the other; we don't want to seem like we are hogging all the fun. What makes this work really well is that we are both very giving lovers. And let's not forget about the escort! How much pressure has that got to be, to have some random couple enter into an intimate adventure with them?? They don't know what our marriage, our relationship is like. Maybe I pressured the Mrs into this, maybe there's some hidden resentment, maybe the wife will freak out or this will turn into a huge fight. Stressful!

What's important is that we are open and honest with each other. We are both very caring people, both emotionally and sexually. With the positive encounters we have had with ladies here, I'd like to think they very quickly pick up on this positive vibe, and that makes it a lot easier for all parties to have fun.

I don't think we would ever look into booking an escort "solo". That's crossing a line neither of us has a desire to cross, and our adventures are quite satisfying already! There's a lot of fun things to be done with three people

I know Clark is answering from his point of view, but I guess this is my take on it too since some of this is directed at me as well. I think for us it has been easier in a sense that prior to our new adventures, we were still in a very happy state in our relationship. Yes, of course once you've been together for as long as we have, you end up developing, let's say, "favorites"... But we've always made an effort to devote energy to our relationship. We try our best to keep "dating" each other I would say if anything we have the opposite situation, I'm the one telling him if he doesn't stop harassing me for 10 seconds, then dinner is never going to get finished and we are both going to starve to death haha. So no, for us this isn't an issue.

For both of us, our first preference is to have the other involved, rather than being one-on-one with a new party. If I feel like he would be bothered by something, it is actually a turn off for me... It's not a trust issue, it would be more of whoever hypothetically was going solo with a new party being too worried about the other to enjoy the experience. So it's not so much that I would be uncomfortable with another woman, but I would be uncomfortable just knowing there was even the potential he wasn't thrilled about the situation somehow. Even if his involvement was just watching, I like having the reassurance that he is enjoying what is going on.

As far as civilians go, unless we were participating in a very particular type of event, we don't necessarily go around just checking everybody out. If we are going out on a date together, we are probably focused on each other! We do talk about celebrity crushes though, especially if we happen to have any ladies in common

Thank you both for your very open replies. I had a more prosaic question that there must be a lot of changing of condoms involved and would it ruin the mood but I get the feeling you both could handle that part well so there's no need to ask. I'd like to wish you both well in your adventures and thank you again for the interview.

[ClarkKent]

Haha well condoms are an inconvenient, yet necessary part of the adventure. With all the hands and mouths and naughty bits involved in a threesome, it's very manageable to do this and not kill the mood.

[Cassandra]

Wonderful read. I wish there were both more couples and threads like this.

[ClarkKent]

To this, and the entire thread....

Aww shucks! Guess you missed all the posts here where ladies were asking for someone who could give them free fitness courses