What is the best way to make initial contact?

[annabel taylor]

Get the female to call.. lots of guys ring for couples mostly wanking I'm always happier when I've spoken to female partner

Had some terrific times with couples

[Liberty Love]

Libby in Dublin, she is in the Independant escort section , she could be worth talking to ,

If it's me you speak of, I am not bi. There is a section in profile which gives sexual preference such as hetrosexual and no sexual.
I agree with Anabel , have your partner call.
Goodluck x

[Seriouslyhot]

I recently joined the forum and have commented on a thread related to couples. My wife and I have been looking to try something new and have a pleasant experience with another beautiful lady.

Anyways more to the point, as this is something new we've both been pretty shy. Being relatively young and tech savvy, we were excited to see a PM option! Tbh, calling someone is still a little intimidating.

Having said that, we've gotten no responses to PMs. And I'd like to think I was in no way rude in the messages. We did get a response to one of our calls. This surprised me as I personally don't like phones (my family knows not to even bother, and instead just talks to me via email or FB), and I thought PMs would be the way to go.

Is that not correct? Should we be making calls the first method of communication?

We make all our appointments through the pm system, never had a problem! You said in a previous post that you have made an appointment with one of the escors here. Why dont you go see her, put a review up, then you are possibly more likely to get a response to your PM's

[Seriouslyhot]

Yes that is good advice.
I do not see couples but when a man rings and asks I always wonder how keen the lady is if he is doing the calling.

The magic text always gets a reply from me, if you know where I am and the dates that means you read my profile.

Magic text

HI J I am in Athlone 12th would you be free from 2-4pm I will call to book if you are

I send a text reply to that

Phone calls tell me nothing you might think I am still wherever I was last or where ever I am going next.
Yesterday I got 131 phone calls
No way to answer them all so I answered those who sent the magic text


Today I haven't counted but from all the calls today and bookings one person was genuine and came for the booking he made

That is why people with reviews get priority, they are more likely to keep the booking.

Yes, I am the female of the couple , and I always do the corresponding with pm's, txts etc. Works very well for us. And from the escorts we have met so far seem to prefer that!

[ClarkKent]

We make all our appointments through the pm system, never had a problem! You said in a previous post that you have made an appointment with one of the escors here. Why dont you go see her, put a review up, then you are possibly more likely to get a response to your PM's

Yeah that's the plan! Unfortunately our escort canceled tonight's adventure, so we're rescheduled for tomorrow. We'll see how that goes

[ClarkKent]

Yes that is good advice.
I do not see couples but when a man rings and asks I always wonder how keen the lady is if he is doing the calling.

The magic text always gets a reply from me, if you know where I am and the dates that means you read my profile.

Magic text

HI J I am in Athlone 12th would you be free from 2-4pm I will call to book if you are

I send a text reply to that

Phone calls tell me nothing you might think I am still wherever I was last or where ever I am going next.

Yesterday I got 131 phone calls
No way to answer them all so I answered those who sent the magic text


Today I haven't counted but from all the calls today and bookings one person was genuine and came for the booking he made

That is why people with reviews get priority, they are more likely to keep the booking.

Wow 131 calls?! I think I understand a little better. Thank you for the good advice!

[Seriouslyhot]

Yeah that's the plan! Unfortunately our escort canceled tonight's adventure, so we're rescheduled for tomorrow. We'll see how that goes

If it was your wifes idea in the first place, why doesnt she come on the forums? She can get to talk to some escorts and see how the forums work

[ClarkKent]

If it was your wifes idea in the first place, why doesnt she come on the forums? She can get to talk to some escorts and see how the forums work

Haha oh she's here! She's my listed friend, shadowempress. While I'm at work she stalks all my posts lol. I think maybe it's a little easier for me to ask things here; I'm shy in person but have that internet bravery you know? But she's free to do whatever she wants. She did look at your profile and seeing all the positive reviews you made regarding couples encounters made her feel a lot more comfortable with talking to escorts, and less nervous in general.

[ClarkKent]

I didn't count the texts that say

Hi

or

How much

or

how about it for 50


LOL strange people out there, not getting into my room

First contact makes an impression, make it a good one x

I'd like to think I'm a gentleman with my messages. I tend to ramble a bit especially when I am nervous, but I couldn't imagine saying those things and expecting a response!

[Seriouslyhot]

Your shy in person, but do all the talking here lol! My advice is to let her do the talking pm etc..