Let's say you met someone a while back and for a while all was good but then because of his insecurity everything fell apart.
You know you felt something strong for that person and you had hopes about it.
Then after a while that person tries to contact you but not in a ''let's meet'' type of contact.
Would you answer just out of courtesy or just ignore it?
Because you know is too late and because you know that person has become, or was but you didn't see it,someone that likes gossips and you know it's talking about you with other people.So you don't trust that person anymore.