Suppose someone you visited just tolerated you!

[Curvaceous Kate]

The word "tolerated" covers a wide range of situations.

To an extent we are all being tolerated in so far as this is a business arrangement and if you remove the cash incentive, you will see how far you get! So we are all being tolerated to a greater or lesser extent for the cash reward.... unless of course the lady tells you to keep your money in your pocket... that's a different story! (The stuff of legend!)

However, having said that, I would imagine that sometimes the lady enjoys being with her client if he is nice, clean, is not a nutter and knows how to treat her, both as a person and as a lover.

I am sure that if you are a smelly, rude, rough and ignorant guy then yes you are being tolerated for the money..... end of.

I disagree with you. It's very rare that I 'tolerate' a client and if I felt that way I would not take another booking from them. For us to be able to enjoy our work it's best to stick with the clients we do enjoy the company of, even if some of the services are tolerated (and by that I may finish in a way that they prefer rather than what I want, purely because that is what they are paying for). However the time spent with them is still enjoyed and welcomed.

For me tolerating someone is when you feel you have to spend time in their company even though you really would prefer not to. For me there is a person on my course that I really have to tolerate because if I made my feelings known it would upset the dynamics of the whole group. However if this person was a client I would simply not see them again, because I couldn't tolerate always having to tolerate people lol. I've no patience for it.

I can't wait till the course ends and I can say what I think of this person and give them the finger I'm so selfless lol

[Rocker123]

I disagree with you. It's very rare that I 'tolerate' a client and if I felt that way I would not take another booking from them. For us to be able to enjoy our work it's best to stick with the clients we do enjoy the company of, even if some of the services are tolerated (and by that I may finish in a way that they prefer rather than what I want, purely because that is what they are paying for). However the time spent with them is still enjoyed and welcomed.

For me tolerating someone is when you feel you have to spend time in their company even though you really would prefer not to. For me there is a person on my course that I really have to tolerate because if I made my feelings known it would upset the dynamics of the whole group. However if this person was a client I would simply not see them again, because I couldn't tolerate always having to tolerate people lol. I've no patience for it.

I can't wait till the course ends and I can say what I think of this person and give them the finger I'm so selfless lol

Hi Kate,

I am not clear as to which of the four points I made that you disagree with. I think you have a different definition of tolerate than the one I described where tolerate covers a range of toleration whereas for you tolerate means "when you feel you have to spend time in their company even though you really would prefer not to. . ". I'm just suggesting there may be a range of toleration applicable to escorts and their clients. Hope you are keeping well. X

[Rocker123]

I tolerate quite a few to get what i want, in all honesty.....

That's as honest a reply as you will get.

[Curvaceous Kate]

Hi Kate,

I am not clear as to which of the four points I made that you disagree with. I think you have a different definition of tolerate than the one I described where tolerate covers a range of toleration whereas for you tolerate means "when you feel you have to spend time in their company even though you really would prefer not to. . ". I'm just suggesting there may be a range of toleration applicable to escorts and their clients. Hope you are keeping well. X

lol that's why I wrote what it meant to me to make it clear as to what I was disagreeing with.

Here is another example. If I were a Teacher and being paid to teach a class of children, I may have to tolerate some of the children, but most of them I will enjoy teaching and actively be wanting them to learn, which would be my job. I would still be wanting them to learn even if I was not their teacher, but it would not me my position to do so. The payment merely sets the boundaries, it bears no reflection on the motivation for doing the job or genuine appreciation for the people worked with.

Just to clarify the meaning as I see it, I found this which makes it quite clear where I am coming from.

'allow the existence, occurrence, or practice of (something that one dislikes or disagrees with) without interference.'

I suppose it's all about how you interpret that.

As I said before there will be times when you are tolerating, but if you are good at your job you would not show it and if you care about yourself (as the sex worker) you would not repeat it.

[Curvaceous Kate]

I tolerate quite a few to get what i want, in all honesty.....

Now that's a good example. We tolerate each other most of the time

[Curvaceous Kate]

I don't want to speak for Kate here but I think she means that she would not just put up with someone just because they are paying!

Are you really in your 40s? I thought you were early 30s

[Mister Anderson]

Your a sweetheart.

I'm ageing well.

If you say so ...