So there's the pressure put on ya , no wonder your head playing tricks on you !!
RELAX !!
Try to find a provider who offers Time and Companionship and not one who tries to whack you off and out the door .
Slow down !! enjoy the moment you are in , instead of trying for some imaginary Finish Line .
So what if you don't come ?? Your time with a companion in itself should be enjoyable ! : kissing , touching ,
sucking , stroking , hugging , looking , licking , etc. and more , all fun !!
You'll find -- in time -- that you're enjoying these things so much , you'll spontaneously will have an orgasm x
( trust me , I have 'cured' many of you guys of PE , and / or inability to climax .)
Also , try to find a girl who will take her time , who will NOT just lay there for you to 'do your thing and "perform" ' .
My Gents I always take care of in a way that I tease them , build their anticipation and desire til they feel they 'must'
do something about it : then if they wish , they can do their acrobatics
, but I always always start by pleasing
them in a most leisurely way ... without any rush , just enjoying each and every moment for what it is in itself .
Try to find someone like that
, and all the best to you
xx