Taking a risk - help me ladies

[Bogman]

Life has been very hectic of late and posed me many challenges both in my home life, my health and those around me and in my work but am beginning to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Recently my wife and I had an animated discussion about our non existent sex life. We still sleep in the same bed but for more than half our married life have not had sex, in fact the last time was over ten years ago. It only bothers her if she thinks I am getting it elsewhere but she does not regard it as important. Its for procreation and that's it.

I have a wide circle of friends, none of whom know of my involvement with the ladies I meet here, and that circle includes several ladies whom I find attractive and I think some of them have a notion for me too. Some are married, not many, most are single and they range in age from half my age to older than me.

I think I am friendly, gregarious and able to talk to anyone about any topic and have them feel comfortable in my company.

My point is, and here's where I need advice, should I grab the bull by the horns and just tell some of these female friends that I would like to take them to bed if they were open to some NSA fun. How would some of you ladies respond if you were presented with this question and what would be the best words to use.

My thoughts are to meet them for coffee and just get to the point at some stage and just say it if the vibes were right.