It's a violation of one's bodily integrity !
: Against your will / or by misdeed , someone sticking even a needle in you -- how do you come to terms with it !?? X
Let's switch it around a bit : you hook up with a good looking young lass at a bar or such , agree to go back to hers ,
you've already discussed that you don't mind a bit of anal play , and a strap on would stroke your fancy .
She's hot ! She's curvy , lippy , warm and sexy , fe*ks you from behind , and in your steaming drunken stupor
ecstasy you don't realise , it was a Dude all along , dressed as a lass !!!
But you've never been there , you're not gay !! you never ever even fantasised about a penis being anywhere near you !!
So let me ask you : Able to come to terms with that!??