When is an appointment actually an appointment?

[Sexy Sandy 69]

When a guy books an appointment I ask him to confirm, if he doesn't make the confirmation call at the time I request, I cancel his appointment, which means if someone rings & wants an appointment at short notice I know I can see him. I've had guys confirm later than I've requested by which I've booked someone else into their appointment, some have been less than happy but I'm not going to wait around & loose potential business. Every escort works differently, but the way I work is that if you book in advance that appointment time is booked for you, however if you don't confirm at the time I've requested, your appointment is cancelled.

Sandy x

[Petros]

Was heading through the town yesterday and decided to give a girl a call on the off chance she could see me and unfortunately she couldn't which i completely understood as she had an appointment in 20 minutes which she seemed very sure of and why wuldn't she,however 15 minutes later i get a call from her,saying she could see me as she hadn't received the the confirmation call,unfortunately i was nearly home and couldn't get back in,i felt she was really pissed off at the amount of times its happening as they are loosing out on business as a result.All the girl has is our word that we will confirm and arrive for the appointment on time,but as the OP said that has happened to me before too,where appointment was all arranged well in advance and confirmation call was made only when i arrived for precise location no answer as she took another booking and hoping i would wait around,unfortunately for her there was a hottie around the corner from her

Yeah! Time wasters must be the scourge of the ladies lives. However, I am not talking about time wasters or double booking etc. just when is an appointment actually an appointment.

I have often read here that forum posters are among the worst time wasters.
If you are travelling a distance request the confirmation for maybe 90 mins before.
My understanding is the appointment is only "official" after the confirmation.

This is a very good idea confirming earlier — but sometimes it is not possible as the lady may be busy at that time — she probably does not know the day before when she will be able to take your conformation call.

If I make a 'next day' appointment by PM,I usually text the next morning to confirm and then call (or text) to confirm at the requested time.Usually works for the lady.

Same here — but is it actually confirmed until you make the call the hour or so before?

Having said that I have made appointments with some ladies via PM who I have not met before and not been asked to Confirm before the appointment — jus ring or txt when there for final directions.

[Petros]

When a guy books an appointment I ask him to confirm, if he doesn't make the confirmation call at the time I request, I cancel his appointment, which means if someone rings & wants an appointment at short notice I know I can see him. I've had guys confirm later than I've requested by which I've booked someone else into their appointment, some have been less than happy but I'm not going to wait around & loose potential business. Every escort works differently, but the way I work is that if you book in advance that appointment time is booked for you, however if you don't confirm at the time I've requested, your appointment is cancelled.

Sandy x

Thank you Sandy for your input — what you say there is exactly how I assumed it would be. The appointment stands unless the client defaults on the agreement by not confirming at the time requested.

[gameboy]

Same here — but is it actually confirmed until you make the call the hour or so before?

Having said that I have made appointments with some ladies via PM who I have not met before and not been asked to Confirm before the appointment — jus ring or txt when there for final directions.

I usually assume that the morning text confirms I'm going to be there,but I suppose different ladies have different perceptions.Has worked for me todate

[jakelanders]

Yeah ...... communication is the key Petros. But unfortunately circumstances do arise and plans go by the wayside.
I would like to think it's more the exception.

But whatever the circumstances the fact will remain that appointment "agreement" is void until confirmation is accepted by the Escort

[Petros]

I usually assume that the morning text confirms I'm going to be there,but I suppose different ladies have different perceptions.Has worked for me todate

Assumption — the mother of all fook ups

That's what I'm trying to avoid here — I know different ladies work different ways but it would be good to know whether or not most operated a similar system as Sexy Sandy who posted above does

[Petros]

Yeah ...... communication is the key Petros. But unfortunately circumstances do arise and plans go by the wayside.
I would like to think it's more the exception.

But whatever the circumstances the fact will remain that appointment "agreement" is void until confirmation is accepted by the Escort

But the "agreement" can only be void if it was first confirmed as being agreed in the first place.

As you say circumstances do arise and plans go by the wayside and when this happens, be it to the client or the lady then they should contact the other party as soon as possible and inform them of this so as to allow for alternative arrangements to be made.

[Todger]

Thank you Sandy for your input — what you say there is exactly how I assumed it would be. The appointment stands unless the client defaults on the agreement by not confirming at the time requested.

What you want ? A contract? We all suffer this its why is called punting . Ffs man up

[Petros]

What you want ? A contract? We all suffer this its why is called punting . Ffs man up

May I ask what your issue is? This is a thread which I hope will address a subject that might help "punters" and escorts alike when it comes to appointments and reviews afterwards.

[Petros]

Rang a lady at 2pm to book for 5pm. She says yeah baby no problem.Confirm 1hr beforehand.
At 3pm she texts me and asks if she can push the appointment back to 8pm........eeehhhh
I pm'd her that evening to say hello and try and re-arrange . She told she had a 3hr booking at 4pm which was arranged after my arrangement.
That's fair enough , money talked and its business but goes to show my agreed arrangement meant jack.

Sounds a tad like a scenario i posted earlier

So it all depends on the lady. My view is the appointment is not actually valid until you confirm one hour beforehand.

Yes, the "conformation" call seems to be the definite reference!