I have to admit many of the reasons why im sure you have just mentioned above just like you alluded too.. Its a tricky one really as im sure not all who dont want to be reviewed are bad, maybe some are self-conscious and their afraid to see what men portray them as, the truth or not? I feel your frustration as their are many whom iv come across that iv taken a liken too but have hesitated due to not allowing reviews. The reviews enable us to get a great sense of what the lady is about, it has its flaws for sure but id prefer if they all "had" to use this system, save punters from been ripped off by some who just want a quick buck and don't care what type of service they give!!