Originally Posted by
CurvaceousKate
I was giving my opinion, which I believe I am allowed to do? My tastes maybe vanilla in your eyes, but I can tell you something, I know the world of BDSM well and have many friends and acquaintances that live the lifestyle, not play at it like you do and they would not talk to me the way you just did, but would respect my point of view from my vantage point.
Also, I don't think I was talking about the 'vanilla' side of BDSM, more alternative. I have friends that do fire play (sensory) and there is nothing vanilla about that.