Originally Posted by
Alex.xx
Thanks heavens, I've never experienced myself any full blast bullying here. I have seen attempts to wind me up, yes. I have always choice, what to do with it. Block, ignore or, more often, get back, stand up for myself making a point of the quality of my response (images usually, images).
In the depth of me I feel sorry for bullies, I take it as some way of reassuring themselves of their superior position over the victim and then the rest of the crowd. What insecurities must eat up a person like that, when he/she decides to intimidate another one? I feel pity.
I dare to say: patronizing is as bad as bullying. I have allergy to patronizing. Patronizing is one if the main reasons for me leaving Poland. I have patronizing targeted sensors. Very sensitive. Patronizing is only one step away from bullying.
I have seen guys trying to patronise me here. I'd let it go, chances are great, I never get to see him live. I might answer, but I take by default, my response won't be understood by addressee. I'd go for it rather for some fun for all who happened to read it too.
I have seen escorts trying too. Why? because of age difference? experience? I don't care where their wisdom comes from, if they are trying to share it in such a way. Go and find someone else. SmallHorn. Willy. Saul. Never tried? upssss.....
The only bullying, which really puts me under stress is when some punter is calling and decides for me, he's going to 'be there' in 10 minutes. Oh FFS! 1. Are you actually invited? 2. You going to be in 10 minutes where? 3. what makes you think I'll be ready? 4. you cannot wait longer than 15 minutes and still determined to see me? then you need to be aware, that because you trying to bully me into not convenient for me arrangements, I shall act as a Grumpy Cow; how about that?
and you know what? 30% of them at this very point asks: what outfits you have?
Well???