Regret

[tom sand]

No I'd be with a mortgage paid for and an easy life lol.

we need a time machine kate
i will get working on it

[Banger]

There were a couple of women down through the years who I knew fancied me but I hesitated to ask out and they lost interest. That I regret.

[tom sand]

There were a couple of women down through the years who I knew fancied me but I hesitated ask out and they lost interest. That I regret.

why is it up to the male to ask the girl out
in this day and age

[Seriouslyhot]

why is it up to the male to ask the girl out
in this day and age

Think that may have been a long time ago..Women in general nowadays are not afraid to ask men out!!

[Banger]

Think that may have been a long time ago..Women in general nowadays are not afraid to ask men out!!

They may not be afraid to ask men out but that doesn't mean they do it. Women by and large expect men to pursue them. A double standard I suppose but what can you do...

[tom sand]

Think that may have been a long time ago..Women in general nowadays are not afraid to ask men out!!

hi Seriouslyhot
no in my experience up to last saturday night
they dont

[Curvaceous Kate]

why is it up to the male to ask the girl out
in this day and age

Because like it or not there is still a stigma attached to a woman being forward and in many cases the guy won't look at her as 'girlfriend' material and think she is easy.

There is also the fact that a lot of guys like the chase and it it's handed to them on a plate they lose interest.

Basically, you can't win either way.

[Seriouslyhot]

hi Seriouslyhot
no in my experience up to last saturday night
they dont

Hi tom,
maybe its the women I know lol.If they like someone,They are not afraid to go for it, and the men seem to love it!!
confidence in a person can be very attractive...

[slavetoyou]

I think we should all live by this

[Banger]

Because like it or not there is still a stigma attached to a woman being forward and in many cases the guy won't look at her as 'girlfriend' material and think she is easy.

I think if a guy is put off a woman because she approached him it's more likely because he was not used to being pursued in that way. Or maybe, like a lot of men, some women are just not very good at approaching the opposite sex.

There is also the fact that a lot of guys like the chase and it it's handed to them on a plate they lose interest.

This is surely a small minority. I'd say 99% of men would prefer women to be more pro-active in approaching them. Or at least be more approachable.