Dating escorts

[mexicanpete]

The question of dating escorts came up in the course of another thread and I thought that posters opinions and experiences in this regard deserved its own thread
In my experience there is a fundamental difference between dating escorts and dating non-escorts. It is not the difference that you are thinking because you always pay for sex in one way or another. The difference is that escorts tend to be open to friendship whereas girls that one might meet at work or in a club tend to be looking for love.
Escorts in the main are intelligent businesswomen following a life goal and the last thing that they want is some man trying to ‘make an honest woman out of them’ or ‘take them away from it all’. Many of them are in the business to get away from or be independent from men that wanted to control them. ‘Love’ is a dangerous word for an escort because today’s lover can easily be tomorrow’s stalker/psycho. If you want to ‘woo’ an escort you must first convince her that you do not love her, you just want her body!!
Ironically, escorting can be a lonely profession and many escorts are open to simple fun and friendship with someone who respects them and respects what they do. Looks tend to be less important to an escort than to other girls. I think that escorts learn to appreciate people more for what they are than what they look like.
I often see the idea touted here that escorts are all hard hearted bitches who are only interested in money. Of course escorts are interested in money as it is their business and why should they treat their business any differently to how a client treats his. That does not mean to say that escorts cannot enjoy their work or make friends in the course of their work like any other profession. Affection and friendliness on the part of an escort is not always faked. If you find that you get on well with an escort and she seems to get on with you then discretely drop hints about interesting places to eat or drink and see if the bait is taken
However, if you are interested in dating an escort because you think that you will get free sex then go back to playing the lotto, you have a far better chance of success

[EIFII]

Of course escorts may genuinely enjoy the company of certain clients, that is only natural.

However it is mistaken to believe that an escort may enjoy "dating" as in joining you in non sexual activities such as going for a drink or dinner during their time off.

Many escorts offer dinner dates or overnights, but time is always paid for, whether you are in the bedroom or the restaurant. Even if an escorts volunteers to give you more time than you are officially paying for, you are still paying something.

Ultimately you really are paying for time and companionship with these kind of appointments, not paying for sexual services as you more likely are in a 30 or even 60 minute appointment.

[mellors]

Have I wandered onto Plenty Of Fish by mistake ? Whats with this obsession on here with dating escorts recently?

[nonpareil]

Have I wandered onto Plenty Of Fish by mistake ? Whats with this obsession on here with dating escorts recently?

Role play in Fantasyland.

[Sexy Fernanda]

Role play in Fantasyland.

Must be , in the last 6 months I had to end a handful of business meetings coz the guys though I had feelings for then ?
Besides been pretty good on what I'd some guys don't know where the line between business and personal life is drawn .

I'm talking about long term meetings , regulars I knew for over 2 years . All of them wanted to date , sorry but I don't do dating on the real world . I accept going for a dinner or even a overnight coz I enjoy the company plus the fee but doesn't mean I would do for free on my spare time. I always have something to do if I'm not working to which I rather not mention.


To be be honest , I think some guys get the buzz out of thinking he is getting something more valuable if he is not paying . Who knows ....

[nonpareil]

You always want what you can't have.

[mexicanpete]

Must be , in the last 6 months I had to end a handful of business meetings coz the guys though I had feelings for then ?
Besides been pretty good on what I'd some guys don't know where the line between business and personal life is drawn .

I'm talking about long term meetings , regulars I knew for over 2 years . All of them wanted to date , sorry but I don't do dating on the real world . I accept going for a dinner or even a overnight coz I enjoy the company plus the fee but doesn't mean I would do for free on my spare time. I always have something to do if I'm not working to which I rather not mention.


To be be honest , I think some guys get the buzz out of thinking he is getting something more valuable if he is not paying . Who knows ....

You are quite right! Put the buggers in their place! How dare they presume on your affections!

I think that it is best that I make no comment on South American girls and dating.

However, it is ironic, looking at your profile, that with only a few extra inches in height I could be looking at the profile of a girl that I mentioned elsewhere in the thread. It has to be said that when it comes to sensuality, there is no one to match the South Americans.

[mexicanpete]

Of course escorts may genuinely enjoy the company of certain clients, that is only natural.

However it is mistaken to believe that an escort may enjoy "dating" as in joining you in non sexual activities such as going for a drink or dinner during their time off.

Many escorts offer dinner dates or overnights, but time is always paid for, whether you are in the bedroom or the restaurant. Even if an escorts volunteers to give you more time than you are officially paying for, you are still paying something.

Ultimately you really are paying for time and companionship with these kind of appointments, not paying for sexual services as you more likely are in a 30 or even 60 minute appointment.

Why would you think that it is strange? Escorts seldom socialise together and don't have boyfriends. Who else would they go out with? Sometimes escorts just want to relax and be themselves, not have to put on a show, go where they want to go like a particular night club or bar. Actually, I have found Johnny Foxes to be popular over the years.

for sophie

It is difficult for escorts to do these things on their own so if they have a reasonably dependable and friendly client why not make use of him? and make use of his wallet to pay for everything, of course

You talk about escorts giving you more time than you have paid for. Why would they do that if they did not enjoy your company. If they enjoy your company, why not enjoy having a drink together in that extra time?

[EIFII]

Why would you think that it is strange? Escorts seldom socialise together and don't have boyfriends. Who else would they go out with? Sometimes escorts just want to relax and be themselves, not have to put on a show, go where they want to go like a particular night club or bar.

I never said it was strange for escorts to want tonenjoy themselves in their down time. You presume to know a lot about other people and their private business and I have no idea why. Also I don't see why an escort would choose voluntarily to socialise with a client. I have no doubt that, like many of us, they choose to leave their working lives behind to socialise.

You talk about escorts giving you more time than you have paid for. Why would they do that if they did not enjoy your company. If they enjoy your company, why not enjoy having a drink together in that extra time?

That is a exactly my point. Escorts always want you to pay for their time, even if you reach a private arrangement for her financial reward. What you do during that time is of course up to you and the escort concerned. Again you presume to know too much

[nonpareil]

New thread.

"Dated Escorts".

For the lover of matures,

And GILF enthusiast.