Originally Posted by
PaddyDaddy
Im not saying that some men are not monogamous. Im saying that it is not the natural default state of male homo sapiens to be such. It is a state that is programmed into men due to social "norms" and conditioning. As such we do have a society in which some men can maintain monogamous relationships.
If it was a social norm to be polygamous do you think many men would naturally choose to be monogamous?
It is society and not nature that is dictating the monogamous status quo. It is why we see such a large amount of men struggle with monogamy. They are under social pressures to behave counter to their natural instincts.