Double space , double space !!
As to the point of the thread : I find it dismaying that PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY seems to be eroding at such an
alarming rate in all societies . It's ridiculous imo to hold someone else responsible for our own actions .
Need a law to keep your willy in your pants ? How about self determination and willpower and all the other good stuff ?
That's me done here x
But : Double Space , double space x
I do what I want. I cannot do otherwise.
Unfortunately it sounds like you have a self control issue and your trying to rationalise your so called addiction. If and when that law arrives then you will still want to visit one of the beautiful escorts as you will still be visiting this website. There are no addictions, only choices.
others feel the same as me and of course there are addictions like sex, drug and alcohol and so forth and sometimes we need a swift kick up the backside so to speak to get us to do about it
They put the cost of cigarettes up and alcohol, due to trying to influence people to stop, but it hasn't worked. If you are truly addicted, it won't stop you, but you may pause for a while, until the itch becomes too strong again. You may learn to play a little safer, take fewer risks, but it won't stop you.
The main problem with the law, is not that it may make some people think twice or hold back on their hobby, but all the reasons why it is being brought in. It's based on lies and deception and will make things very difficult for those that are stuck in Sex Work against their will or decide that they want out, but are perhaps being coerced into continuing. This is the reason why I appose it, regardless of the possibility of putting my rates up or getting more work. It's the principle and the consequences of a bad law, that can only result in bad situations being created for those that really do need help.
Davidontour (12-02-15), Prickly (12-02-15)
Hmmm... having just read this thread I see a lot of judgmental brow beating and a few up on their high horse.
EVRYBODY here has a reason why they visit escorts. Some are in relationships, others are not. Some are greedy others are needy. But whatever their reasons its not for me to judge. So long as the punter is respectful to the ladies its his own business what he does.
Andy, I will say this tho. Youre a young lad, and by your own account a good looking lad. It worries me that you cannot be satisfied in your relationship without the kick of seeing escorts. Settling down, thinking of starting a family, true "lurnve" and all that stuff. What is your future. The slightest hiccup in your relationships, be it sexual or emotional, and youre off to see an escort rather than trying to work things out between you. Yikes... too easy!
Escorting didn't exist in my day. I wonder how quickly I would have settled down and stayed interested with my partner, being there through thick and thin, for her or my kids, had I had such an escape.... dunno... I've successfully been through that now for years, and years and fuckin years....
This game is addictive. I read the OP as a "point of interest" type post and do not see it deserves condemnation.
Curvaceous Kate (12-02-15), JAMESCORK (12-02-15)
That is a very post James, the thing is we have probably got even closer in recent 5 months although I have tried to see escorts but not as many as before.My will power I must admit is not the best, never was. I love and respect the escorts and mostly have a great time which makes it even harder to give up especially when there's a hot lady in your area. I never said I will manage to quit, I just don't know how it will go but would love it give it my best shot for once.
I got friends that never visited escorts but as they say what you never had, you never missed.
Only time will tell for me
JAMESCORK (12-02-15)