This new law -------- I will welcome it in a way

[jamie25]

That will prove difficult on your lunch break!

Nah! I'm just having an American pie for lunch ,

[Janko]

Hmmm , i doubt that a law change is going to somehow miraculously make men concentrate on their owm relationships. And i doubt devoted wifes and gfs are going to magically start sucking cock like porn stars and letting there men cross dress whilst giving them a seeing to with a good ol strap on. But sure, time will tell

it will stop some though as will be afraid of being caught and exposed and maybe might keep them at home for a while, its different when it will become a criminal offence, some have said they are giving up here while others may not visit as often while others talk of going outside Ireland and then you will have others that do not care one way or the other

[Curvaceous Kate]

Maybe it will help guys concentrate on their own relationships, those that have one, to stay at home and put a bit of effort into sorting it out rather than running to the nearest Escort when things get tough or they feel like it, it may stop the lying and false pretenses and some guys are just looking for an excuse to get away.
You got to feel sorry for the devoted wife / Gf who looks after the children , looks after the home and generally looks after the man in most cases.
Escorts will not care as they don’t know you and its just business to them
Excuses will be made that isn't it better than having an affair and so on but it is still cheating and not really fair on the woman who's sat at home and we know it.

Quite a few assumptions being made there Janko.

[Janko]

Quite a few assumptions being made there Janko.

I have read the thread CurvaceousKate and that is what they are saying,

[Liberty Love]

Nah! I'm just having an American pie for lunch ,

I thought you were swearing off pie. Or is that not until june?
Its not all about you babe. If seeing escorts is not for you then stop seeing them. What about my countless unmarried , never been married probably never will be married, ever, clients!
But this law does not matter. Where tbere is a will there is a way. And as far as sex and mankind goes there will always be a will. And a strong one.
Sex industry is alive and well in Scandinavia but the law did get rid of street girls, and brothels but it brought the rates back up and its a good place for an independent to tour. Plus those men. Fucking yummy they are! Some irish have that Nordic gene. Umm big dick fuckers. Yeab, you know who you are!

[Liberty Love]

it will stop some though as will be afraid of being caught and exposed and maybe might keep them at home for a while, its different when it will become a criminal offence, some have said they are giving up here while others may not visit as often while others talk of going outside Ireland and then you will have others that do not care one way or the other

I would not judge the industry on what you read on these boards as you are only getting the opinions of actual forum members who make up a tiny fraction of client base. A mere speck actually. Most irish men will argue that it is already illeagal.
Trust this janko. Its the oldest profession and will be the last profession as well.
Humans are not wolves they dont mate for life. We are more like dogs. We like to fuck things we are attracted to

[jamie25]

I thought you were swearing off pie. Or is that not until june?
Its not all about you babe. If seeing escorts is not for you then stop seeing them. What about my countless unmarried , never been married probably never will be married, ever, clients!
But this law does not matter. Where tbere is a will there is a way. And as far as sex and mankind goes there will always be a will. And a strong one.
Sex industry is alive and well in Scandinavia but the law did get rid of street girls, and brothels but it brought the rates back up and its a good place for an independent to tour. Plus those men. Fucking yummy they are! Some irish have that Nordic gene. Umm big dick fuckers. Yeab, you know who you are!

HELLO, where did i say Escorts are not for me? I said I didn't mind traveling anywhere to meet them, big big difference there.
are you saying most Irishmen are not Yummy. yes you are

As for the American pie, you know what i'm talking about but even I couldn't eat a whole one

[Curvaceous Kate]

I have read the thread CurvaceousKate and that is what they are saying,

I'm talking about what you wrote, not the rest of the thread. You assume that the married clients are in happily married situations where their wives are devoted to them. How do you know that? It is very rare that a client tells me that he has a regular sex life with his partner (all though it does happen). As Liberty Love said, for many it is not the usual scenario they are looking for. They may have a fetish or a kink that they can't get at home.

No two people or relationships are the same. Many people in Ireland live in loveless relationships, as the stigma or cost of splitting ups is more than they can cope with. For some women once they have had children they see no need to continue intimacy with their partner and yet they may have another 20+ years together. If she is not prepared to talk about or compromise on that, then where does that leave him?

People are conditioned to see sex as a bad thing, or at best a means to an end (babies) and they are not meant to enjoy it. There are people out there that will not give or receive oral, because it is not necessary or seen as being disgusting. If people were allowed to embrace the bodies they were born in and learn to enjoy them, then there would be a lot less need for Sex Workers.

Lastly, we all have different levels of libido and it's all very well for someone with a low libido to tell someone with a high libido to get a grip and live without sex.

Okay one more point. What about those people who are married to someone who is disabled and unable to have sex with them? They still love each other, depend on each other and want to be together, but that area of the relationship can't be satisfied. Is it so wrong for them to seek intimacy to fill that void?

As I said, a lot of assumptions and you can't know why someone decides to see a Sex Worker or what environment they live in or if it is as simple as being unfaithful to a devoted partner.

[Khujo]

I don't want this to come across as nit picking your post in particular, but I find where I live, the local Irish girls (regular non-escort girls I mean) are absolutely stunning.

They are just as, if not better looking than any escort esp when dolled up for a night out.

If only they didn't drink so much, feckin' alco's

No worries man, you're perfectly entitled to have your own opinion

Like I said there are some absolutely stunning Irish women for sure, look at Irish Sarah & Irish Leigha for example, two absolute stunners! I'm just saying in general that Irish women on average are alot less attractive then their European counterparts.

I mean, you seriously cannot compare us looks wise to the likes of other countries with similar populations, Norway, Slovakia & Croatia immediately spring to mind. I don't care what anybody says, you just have to put patriotism aside and look at cold hard facts. Like willie wacker said earlier on this thread, us Irish have very bad diets and bad skin, due mainly to cheap junk food and a lack of sunlight/vitamin D. I could even throw the ol' Catholic guilt bit in for good measure as (sober!) Irish women are very hard to approach, not very friendly and hard to get into bed in my opinion.

I'm not trying to offend anybody with my opinion but it really does surprise me that so many people are so quick to defend Irish women when this website is full of Irish men paying to have sex with (mostly) European escorts who are based in Ireland. I mean, in all reality, if Irish women were so stunning and great craic then why are we all here

[Liberty Love]

HELLO, where did i say Escorts are not for me? I said I didn't mind traveling anywhere to meet them, big big difference there.
are you saying most Irishmen are not Yummy. yes you are

As for the American pie, you know what i'm talking about but even I couldn't eat a whole one

Yeah everone here knows i am American pie.. i should have quoted as tbe first line of post that refers to pie was my reply to your post.
The rest was for OP or whomever was interested.i dont come on here to argue or prove how witty or articulate i may or may not be.
I come on here for exposure and to sometimes give half an opinion . Anyway I am back in Ireland next week and i look forward to all the irish cock i can get yummy and not so fucking yummy.
Have a nice day. I am off to make breakfast and go get a pedicure! Last weekend at home. I might have to cut looooose tonight lol