It's all about the money......?!

[Jiberjabber]

I'm not sure whether it's emotional, I think the ones who keep moaning about us only being interested in the money are the ones who feel bitter towards us because we have the power to take their money in exchange for our services and if they don't pay then they don't get to have sex with us so in other words they are bitter because we won't give them it for free.

It's all bitterness in my opinion.

xx

The old 'if I'm not getting it for free then it doesn't count' line of reasoning. I still suspect there is an underlying emotional aspect to that argument. Bitterness, yes that's one aspect, but there's probably lots more.

[Sexy Sandy 69]

At the end of the day, we provide a service & we charge for that service, the same as any other service provider does. Seeing an escort is a luxury, it's a treat, what we charge reflects the risks that we take working in the sex industry. If guys don't like what we charge, no one forces them to visit escorts, they choose who to visit & for how long, if they begrudge what it costs them then they should refrain from visiting escorts. It's meant to be pleasure, it's not going to be a pleasurable experience if the guy resents paying for a service.

Sandy x

[hunterhilman]

At the end of the day, we provide a service & we charge for that service, the same as any other service provider does. Seeing an escort is a luxury, it's a treat, what we charge reflects the risks that we take working in the sex industry. If guys don't like what we charge, no one forces them to visit escorts, they choose who to visit & for how long, if they begrudge what it costs them then they should refrain from visiting escorts. It's meant to be pleasure, it's not going to be a pleasurable experience if the guy resents paying for a service.

Sandy x

not all the time sandy, it can be a nightmare, make one mistake and your f*cked

[SmallHorn]

I will, thanks... maybe a wee thought then

sex work is different to other work as what are the chances of us getting immense pleasures and orgasms in our working place. Zero, Yous are very lucky girls indeed

You must have an awful workplace.

[Elizaparkeruk]

Sexy Sandy has about summarised things. Yes there is the control element which girls have through the collection of the "gift" and the ability to detach ourselves emotionally which some guys don't know how to handle.

I think you can do nothing about it. You can only abide by your own personal rules, gone is the days when we were cave women.

[Kendra]

I will, thanks... maybe a wee thought then

sex work is different to other work as what are the chances of us getting immense pleasures and orgasms in our working place. Zero, Yous are very lucky girls indeed

Your delusional. Sex work is WORK! If I want orgasms then I will go out and find a guy in my private life.

I don't go to work to have orgasms, I go to work to give my clients orgasms.

Your clearly one of the bitter ones who thinks escorts aren't doing a job and do this for fun and fun only.

I wouldn't choose to lie to everyone I love and care about every day, the danger of bringing shame on my family, living a double life, having no love life and not even dating for 3 years all for the sake of "fun" and I certainly wouldn't put myself in dangerous situations with complete strangers every day. If all I wanted was sex then I would just be a wee slut who has loads of one nite stands.

I do this because it's my job, it's good money that is funding my future.

Is that a little clearer for you or do you still not get it?

[HairyPotter]

You must have an awful workplace.

Its not too bad smallhorn, its Hogwarts School by the way, surely you must have heard of it

[talkabout]

It's all about the money,honey

Or it's not?

I personally only work for money-not so much for amusement or personal fulfillment.
I can find those elsewhere.

[SmallHorn]

Its not too bad smallhorn, its Hogwarts School by the way, surely you must have heard of it

Not into the hocus pocus crap Harry.

Unless we are talking a sexy harlem witch

[HairyPotter]

Your delusional. Sex work is WORK! If I want orgasms then I will go out and find a guy in my private life.

I don't go to work to have orgasms, I go to work to give my clients orgasms.

Your clearly one of the bitter ones who thinks escorts aren't doing a job and do this for fun and fun only.

I wouldn't choose to lie to everyone I love and care about every day, the danger of bringing shame on my family, living a double life, having no love life and not even dating for 3 years all for the sake of "fun" and I certainly wouldn't put myself in dangerous situations with complete strangers every day. If all I wanted was sex then I would just be a wee slut who has loads of one nite stands.

I do this because it's my job, it's good money that is funding my future.

Is that a little clearer for you or do you still not get it?

No, I still don't get it