Domination question

[Kendra]

Personally id have assumed that although he mentioned domination ,his reference to playful stuff points more towards an escort with a bit of roleplay experience or a passing interest in domination rather than a full on domme

Yeah that's what I thought too x

[slavetoyou]

Personally id have assumed that although he mentioned domination ,his reference to playful stuff points more towards an escort with a bit of roleplay experience or a passing interest in domination rather than a full on domme

Only he knows that. But he clearly states he wants a domination session, not role play. A visit to a domme can be very light and fun, why do people think a domme is all hard and pain. I'm basing my answer from experience, escorts who advertise domination usually don't do it so he needs to see a lady who does.

[slavetoyou]

I think you are wrong. Your Mistress is an accomplished Dominatrix that we both agree on, but... she also offers Escort services, so she is in fact both and you said to avoid that. You did not explain that he should look in the 'Dominatrix section' to find one, just that she should not also offer Escorting services.

I have only recently started to offer mild domination myself, but that was more due to my knowledge base being so wide and expansive, I doubted that I would be offering enough. It turns out that I'm actually more knowledgeable than most, but I don't have the killer instinct, so certain areas do not suit me, but I am still able to offer a positive and professional experience to those with little previous experience.

I'm not into mutilation and extreme humiliation. I prefer the mind games, tasks, sensory play, nipple clamps etc. I like to make my subs work to make me happy and amuse me. I also enjoy role play, but constant giving of pain, swearing and belittling isn't me at all, although I do expect perfection with every task.

As you just mentioned my Mistress is an accomplished Dominatrix as well as an escort, she is not an escort who has ticked a box for the sake of ticking a box.i have no problem with someone offering both services once they know what they are doing. I have no reason to doubt or did I ever question your ability in domination but I can only go on my experiences with ladies I have met. There is of course the more extreme side of domination but some who advertise it have not even got the basics. That's the point I'm trying to get across.

[talkabout]

And my advice to him for the moment til he knows what he wants,would be to miss those professional dommes who list such things as "burn" and "inflicting pain" amongst their favourites with nary a G.F.E. in sight.Likewise "branding"-more suited to the wild west in my thoughts.

[Versace Targeryan]

Hey,
Am looking for an escort for a domination session for a first timer. Nothing extreme, just mild, playful stuff.
Can anyone recommend an escort?
Thanks

i can reccommend larissa lamore especially on the playful side. i ve never asked for domination but she advertises it an is so proffessional i do not think she wud tick a box just for the sake of it. id guess she wud be a perfect introduction to domination session but i only met her 4 gfe but.
slavetoyou seems to be the guy to pm.

https://www.escort-ireland.com/escor...le-escort.html
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[slavetoyou]

And my advice to him for the moment til he knows what he wants,would be to miss those professional dommes who list such things as "burn" and "inflicting pain" amongst their favourites with nary a G.F.E. in sight.Likewise "branding"-more suited to the wild west in my thoughts.

A professional Dominatrix or escort should never do anything to a client that he did not ask or agree too. It doesn't matter if she lists burns or whatever on her favourites that would not be relevant unless he wants it to be. Those kind of things are only listed so the more hardened sub will know that this lady will go that extra little but. But I must say this, just cause you inflict pain doesn't make you a Dominatrix, it is inflicting pain and making it enjoyable is what makes one.

[xagerate]

Only he knows that. But he clearly states he wants a domination session, not role play. A visit to a domme can be very light and fun, why do people think a domme is all hard and pain. I'm basing my answer from experience, escorts who advertise domination usually don't do it so he needs to see a lady who does.

You see him clearly state only domination....I see him hint at a playful escort who has taken a class or two in domination 101.
(Be interesting to see if he reports back.............I reckon he knows what he wants and just wants to be made beg a bit for it first )

(Almost like looking in the mirror)

[slavetoyou]

You see him clearly state only domination....I see him hint at a playful escort who has taken a class or two in domination 101.
(Be interesting to see if he reports back.............I reckon he knows what he wants and just wants to be made beg a bit for it first )

(Almost like looking in the mirror)

The world through different eyes......

[xagerate]

The world through different eyes......

You really should put some Sudo Cream on that arse
Goodnight

[Curvaceous Kate]

And my advice to him for the moment til he knows what he wants,would be to miss those professional dommes who list such things as "burn" and "inflicting pain" amongst their favourites with nary a G.F.E. in sight.Likewise "branding"-more suited to the wild west in my thoughts.

To be fair I don't agree with that either (oh contrary me). It's important to see someone who knows what they are doing even at basic levels. They need to know what you are interested in and how to keep it safe without losing control. You should discuss a safe word and also what you would not be happy with, so boundaries are kept. Personally I have a check list that allows a 0 to 5 rating of each activity, so I have at my finger tips what the client is confident with, enjoys and what they would never touch with a barge pole.

An amateur could easily cross boundaries through ignorance, so never a good option.