One for the ladies?

[Kendra]

This is one for the ladies, maybe this isn't even the right section to ask the question?

Anyhoo.....am I the only one who finds fingering really, really sore? In my private life I enjoy it if I am in a relationship but I reckon that's because my boyfriend knows exactly how I like it whereas when meeting with strangers, they aren't mind readers so it's impossible for them to know exactly what I like.

I tense up so badly when a client goes to finger me and that's why I find it sore, it's because I've had too many clients either slip and scratch me (one actually cut me and caused me to bleed) or try to stuff too many fingers in or to try and finger me when I am completely dry because there has been no other foreplay.

There is also the hygiene issue because people carry all sorts of bacteria under their fingernails.

And lastly, our body's aren't actually designed to have as much sex as we have as an escort and usually I am absolutely fine having sex and receiving oral sex but when it comes to the texture of fingers, it feels very different and I feel that end up getting friction burns.

Anyway, I stopped allowing fingering about a year or so ago because I couldn't bear it anymore but I hear on different forums, punters complaining when an escort doesn't allow fingering.

So as I said above, am I the only one who tenses up and doesn't enjoy this at all? Am I the only one who just doesn't allow it any more? Someone suggested using lube to avoid the feeling of too many fingers or trying to put fingers in when dry so I did try this but this is when I find I get scratched or cut with nails.

Maybe I've just been really unlucky in the fingering department. It's a delicate area.

Thoughts?

[amylove69]

I removed fingering from my profile some time ago to, Not because I dont enjoy it, quite the opposite I actually do enjoy it ,
But I got so fed up with guys just raming their fingers inside me at the first touch, like they were trying to pull a calf or something.
This does not get me off or turn me on, it actually hurts!! I like to be, as you said, wet and turned on , and if I feel it will guide the guy in there myself if I feel so inclined as I do many times.
Think they looking for the G-spot or something else like my tits from a different angle, who knows!

I have found since it has not been on my profile, guys now are more aware and enjoy the surprise when I do allow them to do it and I too get alot more pleasure from it.

So I do not advertise it but it is not off the menu entirelly, it just puts me in controll of who does it.

***This is the only service not listed tho, that I may, if feel so inclined, offer.

[Kendra]

I removed fingering from my profile some time ago to, Not because I dont enjoy it, quite the opposite I actually do enjoy it ,
But I got so fed up with guys just raming their fingers inside me at the first touch, like they were trying to pull a calf or something.
This does not get me off or turn me on, it actually hurts!! I like to be, as you said, wet and turned on , and if I feel it will guide the guy in there myself if I feel so inclined as I do many times.
Think they looking for the G-spot or something else like my tits from a different angle, who knows!

I have found since it has not been on my profile, guys now are more aware and enjoy the surprise when I do allow them to do it and I too get alot more pleasure from it.

So I do not advertise it but it is not off the menu entirelly, it just puts me in controll of who does it.

***This is the only service not listed tho, that I may, if feel so inclined, offer.

I'm so glad that I'm not the only one who feels this. Yeah as I said, I genuinely enjoy it too but I think it's one of those things I would rather keep for my boyfriend where I know he won't hurt me and I know that I will be genuinely turned on and relaxed.

Yeah I felt that some clients were looking for gold in my vagina when I used to offer it.

2 fingers can feel like a fist if your tense.

xx

[HairyPotter]

Would it come down to size and technique here again kendra, some men have massive ones

[Rachel Divine]

I would believe guys want to know what you ladies like, not what you dislike.

xx

[Kendra]

I would believe guys want to know what you ladies like, not what you dislike.

xx

Well the thread is titled that this was more a question for the ladies however then gents are more than welcome to post

[amylove69]

I would believe guys want to know what you ladies like, not what you dislike.

xx

They can read that on my Favourites list

[Rachel Divine]

They can read that on my Favourites list

Surely that's why now and again you get guys asking what services do you provide, because they read your favourites list.


Keep your knickers on, lady and stop moaning about what you do not like, as tbh, clients do not care.

x

[amylove69]

Prefer to take me knickers off if im honest

Surely that's why now and again you get guys asking what services do you provide, because they read your favourites list.


Keep your knickers on, lady and stop moaning about what you do not like, as tbh, clients do not care.

x

[Mr Cuddles]

clients do not care.

I care.
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