Could you, would you?

[EIFII]

You didn't overstep bud. It's just common sense. And I'm not talking about me but how I would expect it to be in general.

Of course, being someone special, the general rules don't apply

[Versace Targeryan]

Exactly what I was trying to point out. Of course a guy would have insecurities dating an escort. Don't you agree?



You didn't overstep bud. It's just common sense. And I'm not talking about me but how I would expect it to be in general.

i do agree. i prefer 2 date civvie girls. i don t think im insecure but i am competitive an get jealous easy enuf. maybe that s the same as being insecure. fair play 2 u if u can handle it bud.

[Paradoxenigma]

Lol..... Who knew getting married would happen so quickly!!!!!

[Forrest]

There was me thinking you were a leading example of a guy who had formed a "definite mutual connection"?

There are various levels of 'mutual connection', and I have formed a really nice connection with the lady in my signature.
If we ever decided to advance that connection, I wouldn't be announcing it here, or taking an advert in the Times
or Indo to do so either.

I am aware of escorts that are in relationships, where both parties have obviously found a way of dealing with the
difficulties that arise with the job in their own way. If the partner was a former client, it may help in some ways,
in understanding what the job entails. If you care about someone enough, you will make sacrifices.

Relationships are never easy, in the best of circumstances, and require a lot of work to maintain a level of mutual
understanding in the short & long term, and it's really a matter of whether both parties are prepared to put in the
effort to make it work. It's definitely not for everyone but you only live once, so be open minded.

The OP asked if you 'would' or 'could' marry an escort, and my answer is still an absolute yes, and that's not me
being a white knight. I know that there would be a lot of things for both parties to consider before making a decision
like that, as I am far from naive, but if it makes them both happy, then it's worth the gamble, imo.

Unlike that langer manwhore, JAMESCORK

I can't really comment, or draw comparison, with Mr Cork's prowess as a manwhore

[Jiberjabber]

would you cheat on the escort with an escort

Escort inception! Escorteption?

Out of the question,once a whore
always a whore.Thats it.
Don't get me wrong please,there
a few ladies I visit from time to time I care for deeply,and I
would try to help if I could.
But there's no way,I'd ever get involved
romantically.Thats just the way I roll.

Hey man, I dig those little red bars you got under your username. How'd a feller go bouts gitin him sum dem?

[Meursault]

Escort inception! Escorteption?

literally and figuratively

[liffey]

Would I?

Yes, I almost did, a few years ago. She had retired at the time. My policy was that I didn't care what happened before, only what happened from then on. So sex wasn't the issue but there was another issue that stopped it. We're still friends though

And I got close to someone quite recently. I didn't know whether it would have got any deeper, but it appears to be over anyway. Men are good at compartmentalising things, so I thought that if it had got deeper I would cope with her working by not thinking about it. I'm pretty sure that I could have coped in the short term.

But sadly, having read Stephanie's posts, I think that she's right. Love isn't the problem, all the other emotional stuff is the problem. Even if a partner can manage all the jealousy issues, and be very secure in themselves, they'd need to be either gay or asexual or have a very low libido to cope with the times when she is either all sexed out or emotionally drained or both.

So I don't think it can work in the long term. If the escort has a definite plan to stop in the short to medium term at some specific date or having reached some target, I think that just might be made to work, with an awful lot of effort. Maybe.

Some people seem to have made it work, there are cases of escorts marrying clients, but I'd guess it's very rare.

[annabel taylor]

Once a punter always a punter, the need for sex doesn't go, but the reason and needs to why be an escort can and do

I respect the ex bf who broke up with over my job alot more than most, because for me I could never be with someone who ok for me to fuck others job or not, I want the man who break the door down to stop it
But that just me this isn't going to be my life, love can go on hold

But hey I couldn't do swinging with someone I love either

[slimbo]

Once a punter always a punter, the need for sex doesn't go, but the reason and needs to why be an escort can and do

I respect the ex bf who broke up with over my job alot more than most, because for me I could never be with someone who ok for me to fuck others job or not, I want the man who break the door down to stop it
But that just me this isn't going to be my life, love can go on hold

But hey I couldn't do swinging with someone I love either

Are you saying you'd respect the man who helps an escort quit the profession ?

[Versace Targeryan]

Are you saying you'd respect the man who helps an escort quit the profession ?

i think she wants sum1 who'll love her an that she'll love after she s decided she s finished. lol way 2 many she s in that sentence sorry annabell