Originally Posted by
Ladyvonteese
Hi Tom
I have only read a few of these post in this thread and most I have to say is total bol*ocks and it’s easy to see who are the men, brought up on porn and those who found “real” relationships growing up.
What has happened to Ireland, it used to be such a caring community with people opening their doors and harts to other but now it’s a case of, see someone happy and feeling good about themselves, their lives etc. and let see what I can do to put my 5 pence worth in to take the smile off his face or make a person feel worse about whatever situation a person find themselves in.
Thankfully there are so many lovely people I have met here in Ireland who really understand what a GFE really means when visiting girls, having manners, respect, good company and a seriously good laugh together with someone who is compatible to share a like-minded interlude with.
There is such a big difference working here in Ireland then it is in the UK, for one a lot more of the men have respect for the working girls there and don’t see them all as just a sleazy sex object to pop round on short notice and wiggle it about for a few seconds and leave once there tubs are emptied.
Personally in the UK I have never ever had an appointment for half an hour, it’s always been a min of an hour plus and like any “real” GFE been wined and dined, maybe gone to a club or casino before heading home to share some fun, a cuddle, a chat then share a bath together before its time for the guy to leave, which is a real GFE regardless if it’s a hour of good company shared or several hours. Here many think it’s about reacting a 3 hour porn movie which has been edited down to 10 or 15 minutes and some think they have the right to treat a us girls/ladies like a worthless starving dog doing tricks for food/money.
Of course I have had a few hourly appointments in the UK too but the way the sex or fetish industry is run in the UK is very different from here, it’s much friendlier, safer and lots more guys who have a totally different perspective then many do on this forums.
When I have gone on such websites forums in the UK guys would ask questions like what are you doing this week or weekend or what do you think about A, B, or C. I find it totally ridiculous when I read “what do escort do during their time off or what do escorts think”! Seriously what stupide question I have read in these forums, are some people so foolish to believe we think and live a totally different life than any other person just because we get paid for our time or in some case what a person may charge for each service they provide just like any other person dose. Loll! But these same people no doubt they still think shagging some girl they just met in a pub without a condom is safe or shitting on their own door step is ok too (screwing someone they know they shouldn’t) .
You are a lovely guy Tom and even though, if this lady become your one and only visit and who would blame you if she is throwing in lots of happiness too, I am sure I will not be the only lady who will miss your charismatic charming company.
So think of it logically, if in fact you’re not thinking about giving up the life you already have and running off to the sunset, what’s the problem with someone making you feel good about yourself (regardless who she is or what business she is in), isn’t it nice to have someone to share some fun with who makes you happy now and gives you that warm feeling inside again after so long? Isn’t it good to have someone on your mind who obviously makes you smile instead of worrying about all the negativity around us all on our daily lives or from some of the cold envious people here who just visit a girl to empty his emotionless tubs and who are unable to connect?
You’re not a teenager honey and I am sure you are quite capable of working out if someone is trying to scam you or not and well able to watch out for yourself. You started this relationship with this lady with the agreed funds and it turned out she is actually giving you a lot of happiness even when she is not with you also. And by the sounds of it she’s putting a big smile on your face and distracting your thoughts about life boring mundane stuff. And if you are getting really good time between the sheets too there may be many people writing on this thread who are really envious of you right now. Loll
so keep enjoy your times together and I hope you will have lots more fun filled memories to look back on together (or when things move on for you both) in all your meetings with the lady in question. There is nothing wrong with someone bringing happiness to anyone’s life in such a cold uncaring world, for some people life does not have to be all doom and gloom.
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She is a lucky lady to have a “real gent” like you Tom thinking about her, stay happy and enjoy what life brings your way.
Keep smiling
Lady Von Teese (M)
Ps
I am guessing Galway is now out. Loll XXx