Frustrating

[happygolucky]

I am sorry but which lady would want to lick a strange mans arsehole? Lots of the foreign lady's will have it on their profile because they maybe don't even know what it means.

Not only do you have the risk of licking shit from ones anus but you can catch hepatitis and parasites and everything from doing that.

Far too risky a service for me but each to their own.

Exactly Kendra each to their own, and who is anyone to judge

[bluefan1]

Rang a few girls today, all offered favorites on their profile, but when questioned about such, eventually admitted that they dont do them!!.. one conversation when a little like this after the chit chat...

Me..I see you have (fav) on your profile, is that included in price?
Escort.. Yes Honey.
Me.. Are you sure?
Escort.. Yes honey, (hesitantly) Yes its included.
Me.. Ok.. Because some girls say its included, and then when i meet the girl they say its not included.. and i dont want to leave a bad review.
Escort.. It is not included!!

Surely some girls have only themselves to blame for timewasters, As i was probably accused of, just so that i wanted an appointment to be honest as possible.
I feel for the genuine girls who have to put up with the questionnaire and endless phone calls from some of us punters who like to know what we are getting for our buck...As it happens, in the end i didnt bother.

If you have to ask these questions then you're selecting the wrong escorts in my opinion. I rarely ask anything as it's not that difficult to suss out a genuine profile and to check the reviews and even comments from the forum. If I'm seeing someone new who has no reviews or history I ask if she's the same girl as advertised - if not I walk. Otherwise, I like to meet and engage with the woman and if it's not going well I leave and chalk it up to experience. When you're ordering goods for your business that have a similar value do you ask so many questions of your supplier or do you already have an idea from your experience and expertise and knowledge of your trade/profession that they'll pretty much supply what's ordered? If you spend time worrying your head about 100/200 euro you could be doubling that with a decent sales pitch elsewhere.

If you worry about the quality then would sticking to escorts you've met and like not be the better alternative?

[Kendra]

Of course i understand that the escort business is not the same as a mainstream business.. And if i was attacked or robbed in my profession i would take precautions to insure it didnt happen again or else get the hell out of that profession...
If, as some say its not as easy as that, then i would contact Ruhama for some support, as it is clear you are not entirely happy in your work!!
I am actually upskilling at the moment myself, and if you look around you will find that lots of courses are free if you feel you've had enough of the game.
But all this is getting away from what the original thread was about... Namely, escorts ripping off clients, and not being honest, or even remotely honest on their profile, not all of course, but quite a few nowadays.

I am unhappy in my work because I try to reduce the risks of being in a dangerous situation? That's news to me but thanks for knowing me better than I know myself.

I am very happy in my work with those who treat me like a human which is 90% of the time in person. I am unhappy when people treat me badly. Isn't that the way it is in every job? Only my job is far scarier and far more dangerous. Although I have mostly good bookings....I am harassed by lowlives day and nite on the phone like every other escort. If I were to see a quarter or the undesirables that contact me then I'd be in serious trouble.

You don't seem to get it at all. Tunnel vision.

[Myshadow]

I am unhappy in my work because I try to reduce the risks of being in a dangerous situation? That's news to me but thanks for knowing me better than I know myself.

I am very happy in my work with those who treat me like a human which is 90% of the time in person. I am unhappy when people treat me badly. Isn't that the way it is in every job? Only my job is far scarier and far more dangerous. Although I have mostly good bookings....I am harassed by lowlives day and nite on the phone like every other escort. If I were to see a quarter or the undesirables that contact me then I'd be in serious trouble.

You don't seem to get it at all. Tunnel vision.

I get the fact (as you say) that you are being attacked, robbed and blackmailed in your profession...that sounds like a horrific way to live your life, and there is help out there if you need it...but im sure you are aware of that as it is.

[Me4711]

OWO is a biggy because how can she tell that your cock doesn't reek of piss and cheese just by speaking to you on the phone? I don't offer that service for various and obvious reasons but also because I couldn't be doing with worrying about what state my clients cock will be in when he gets here. Some men are very, very clean and make a real effort but some are absolutely gross.

Ur Hilarious & as "Blunt as a Spoon" ... but yes I agree with U Kendra

[liffey]

there is help out there if you need it

Just don't go to anyone in the Rescue Industry for it.

[Catriona]

Of course i understand that the escort business is not the same as a mainstream business.. And if i was attacked or robbed in my profession i would take precautions to insure it didnt happen again or else get the hell out of that profession...
If, as some say its not as easy as that, then i would contact Ruhama for some support, as it is clear you are not entirely happy in your work!!
I am actually upskilling at the moment myself, and if you look around you will find that lots of courses are free if you feel you've had enough of the game.
But all this is getting away from what the original thread was about... Namely, escorts ripping off clients, and not being honest, or even remotely honest on their profile, not all of course, but quite a few nowadays.

I get the fact (as you say) that you are being attacked, robbed and blackmailed in your profession...that sounds like a horrific way to live your life, and there is help out there if you need it...but im sure you are aware of that as it is.

Talk about patronising! I don't know where to start with this. We take precautions, but those aren't enough sometimes as we don't have rights in this country and Ruhama, in particular aren't interested in giving rights but criminalising our industry more.

[Kendra]

I get the fact (as you say) that you are being attacked, robbed and blackmailed in your profession...that sounds like a horrific way to live your life, and there is help out there if you need it...but im sure you are aware of that as it is.

I was robbed, attacked and blackmailed all at the start when I didn't know what to look out for, I was inexperienced and clueless. There are men who particularly look out for the new girls so they can do their worste: now that I have security and a vetting process in place, these things happen less than they would if I didn't be careful about what I was doing, I wouldn't hesitate to go to the police with it now if something happened whereas back then I was scared to involve police, I don't know why.

So a guy phoning me up threatening me with a bad review like you did would instantly put my back up because I would feel intimidated by you and I don't want to be alone with someone who intimidates me.

[Kendra]

Talk about patronising! I don't know where to start with this. We take precautions, but those aren't enough sometimes as we don't have rights in this country and Ruhama, in particular aren't interested in giving rights but criminalising our industry more.

I couldn't have said it better myself. Gosh I am so shit with words when all along, all I had to say was that we take precautions. Thanks hunni xx

[Myshadow]

I couldn't have said it better myself. Gosh I am so shit with words when all along, all I had to say was that we take precautions. Thanks hunni xx

My Apologies,
But my concerns for your safety were genuine, however my words may have been misconstruct.
This could be down to the fact that i am not a native of Ireland, or not even this Continent, but i should have a better grasp having lived and worked here and the UK for over 20 years.
I dont know how this thread has escalated into this, but now im as confused as ever.
Like you, 90% of the people i meet in this punting game are wonderful, and provide a good to fantastic service, and lots compliment me on my dress sense and manners.
So that tells me the process in which i meet girls is working, and i do have a pretty good idea of how genuine an escort is when i make the initial phone call, and i dont have to resort to being quizzical.
However, as i say it seems to be getting harder and harder to meet these genuine girls.
Maybe its time for me to quit for awhile!!