Let’s get back to why people are in relationships in the first place, be it marriage or GF or living together. There’s an understanding that you’ll be sexually faithful to them, and IN RETURN they will sort out your sexual needs.
If it gets stale they may give up. Usually the wife gives up or hits the menopause. She may not want full sex but is able to give him a lot of pleasure if she wants to. If she doesn’t want to, then she can expect him to roam. And vice versa.
The sex part of the deal may be off, but you still have kids, a mortgage etc. Most spouses’ red line is when their family and friends get to know about an infidelity. The same family and friends you were married in front of. So “what do you consider cheating?” - when you’re seen naked on the front lawn at 3am under her best friend. Singing loudly.
Discreetly visiting anyone else should not be a problem. This means managing clothes, the smell of perfume, money, mobile, diary. And not promising your new GF that she will become wife no 2.
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