Tough Question about HIV...

[brianloves]

mmm. dont get me wrong discussion good thing but it seems more interest in asking why I would be suspicious (as opposed to answering the actual question asked)
I can't elaborate on the girl that spooked me...in fact she may not be a customer of EI....normally im careful but cool, taking that measured risk as you put it but a few things came together that started me questioning it all...including the most recent published professional statistics that I previously mentioned...and it is a shocker esp in the tg category...the bottom line is it isn't really a measured risk as you can't measure it can you?? Like if I could point my iPhone at her and run my stdchecker app, sure I guess I'd know there and then! right now I only have a balance of probability to work from. A visit to the STI clinic is point in time - clean results of that only proves that it was clean at that time not 3 weeks and 15 clients (or social play) later....
Look don't aim to kill anyone's buzz sorry if I have

[Meursault]

Stories like this are not uncommon.

I know of an escort rumoured to have HIV.

Before anyone asks, I have not visited them and I won't disclose a name.

oooohh the tension......its like a hitchcock film

[Meursault]

That's not what I was saying.

My point is these things always surface at some point.

My neighbor is rumored to be a serial killer, doesnt mean he is one

[Meursault]

That's my point. FFS read between the lines. You always hear about an racket who might be HIV positive from a person who doesn't like them.

Thats exactly how I heard it. Who knows if it's true or not.

[Meursault]

Good response to a serious thread.......

there is no such thing as a serious thread on the internet, particularly when we dont know each other and especially on an escort forum

[Meursault]

You could at least try to be helpful instead of trolling.

that really hurt wingman. That really cut to the core of me. Maybe i can hand out condoms to make it up to you........

Now fuck off and leave me alone

[Meursault]

Does your mommy know you're looking up adult sites???

thats called bullying wingman

[brianloves]

ok so I've been reading some of the replies here, thanks to the ones who made an effort to answer the original question I posed (instead of answering my question with another question)...some responses to some of the comments from me:

RODG - not sure if I 100% understand what you are asking me but reason I posted in the TS section is because I'm only interested in TS...as a person I actually prefer TS to regular girls for all sorts of reasons including many non-sexual, I love women but TS more. I've never been a punter for an RG on EI or anywhere else....yes HIV or any of the less serious (but still not good news things e.g. syphillis) apply to men, women, TS, all! BUT the frame for me is TS and it has an extra weight with me because of my preferences which you would understand if you read the published statistical studies I referred to earlier..(I wont quote or link it as I don't want to offend the rules here) "The Lancet, July 22 2014 HIV and Sex Workers" use your favourite search engine, read it, esp the bit on prevalence of HIV and you'll see where I'm coming from

on your other comment, no I don't think TS girls are the ONLY ones!!! of course not, that's not what I am saying at all. but I'll refer you to the above published statistics on the matter of prevalance. I think you ARE correct on what you say about people's mis-education about safe practice of sex though!! when I read on threads about some punter wondering if it's safe to do OWO and see some of the answers coming in from the other barstool doctors/punters it scares the shit out of me. and it scares me that because of some situation she might face with rent or who knows what money trouble an escort could take a chance with mis-educated idiots like this and then herself end up with it!! From an escort's point of view this shit has to be unacceptable and I don't blame them one bit for charging as much as they can get...its a dangerous job!!

TSBIANKA - sorry if I've upset you, genuinely that wasn't intended...I guess the thread doesn't exactly sit well with you given it's nature (its a conflict for business is it?) but I'm sorry you feel like that. However I would say NOT talking about it doesn't make HIV go away....that's a conspiracy of silence and doesn't help!
So your comment for me to be talking about this matter is disgusting??? why? because it doesn't suit your line of business to discuss it? sorry that's not good enough response. if it's your use of English then ok, no problem. if not however and that is actually what you meant to say then I say I disagree, its just not good enough NOT to discuss the subject

Meursault/wingman - lads? c'mon?!? it is a serious discussion whatever about it's location...the subject is too heavy for tit/tat/twat...have a beer and make up pls? that's exactly what I'm gonna have now!!

[manofsteel]

Was with a TS about 5 months ago and SHE was pretty insiistant that she came in my mouth ,said she was safe and clean, never done it before so let it happen.She then tells me after we are finished our session that altough she is clean -and I only have her word on that -not to trust anyone else who says they are free from any STDs or HIV.
Nearly afraid to get myself tested at this stage , but I look and feel fine .
read about the AIDS virus and my jesus , you really , really , really DONT want to be infected with it.wont be swallowing anyone's milk from here on in and just hope I didn't catch anything.

[Meursault]

Was with a TS about 5 months ago and SHE was pretty insiistant that she came in my mouth ,said she was safe and clean, never done it before so let it happen.She then tells me after we are finished our session that altough she is clean -and I only have her word on that -not to trust anyone else who says they are free from any STDs or HIV.
Nearly afraid to get myself tested at this stage , but I look and feel fine .
read about the AIDS virus and my jesus , you really , really , really DONT want to be infected with it.wont be swallowing anyone's milk from here on in and just hope I didn't catch anything.

you could be five months into your six year life expectancy.......puts things in perspective..... still if you get the antirectroviral drugs, you should live till 90

Only joking. I doubt an escort would knowingly infect you with anything especially HIV, given that regarding HIV she could be put in jail and out of business. Some states in america require those who are HIV+ to tell potential sex partners. Whether thats the same here, im not sure and dont intend in having to find out anytime soon.