Why do you visit escorts?

[xagerate]

For the crack............... Like...!!!

Sometimes ..rarely mind you,the wisest man hails from somewhere other than Dublin!

[Meursault]

Of course no one is owed a living. But confidence and self esteem are big factors and if you don't have them, you're not going to be in a good place.

yea and what im trying to infer is that they come from the heart. reading a manual written by a crook who was cashing in on the insecurities of men, isnt going to work. There is no pill you can take that suddenly makes you confident in yourself. There is no neuro surgeon who can do an operation on you to make you confident. A psychologist cant do it for you. You must accept yourself for who you are, accept your flaws and weaknesses and then you become confident.


i wasnt even posting that original post towards you.

[Versace Targeryan]

yea and what im trying to infer is that they come from the heart. reading a manual written by a crook who was cashing in on the insecurities of men, isnt going to work. There is no pill you can take that suddenly makes you confident in yourself. There is no neuro surgeon who can do an operation on you to make you confident. A psychologist cant do it for you. You must accept yourself for who you are, accept your flaws and weaknesses and then you become confident.


i wasnt even posting that original post towards you.

u seem 2 have it all figured out. so y do u see ecscorts
no offense meant. ur posts r intresting. im just curious.

[circumcised guy]

It's simple really its to have the chance to be with gorgeous women that i normally wouldn't have a chance in hell to be with and that's not just to do with confidence it's me been realistic. Yea i'm at an age that i would want to copping on and finding a lady to settle down with in the real world ha.. But for the moment i'm happy to stick around in the fantasy world for another bit anyway

[Meursault]

u seem 2 have it all figured out. so y do u see ecscorts
no offense meant. ur posts r intresting. im just curious.

the same reason why we do everything.....because we get bored.

[Withoutaclue]

And for a good conversation ,, but then I love oral...

[Prickly]

Apologies if this has either been done to death or is in the wrong section.

For me, I've started visiting them because I'm in my late 20's and have never had a girlfriend. I've love shyness (for those who don't know http://www.love-shy.com/faq).

In the last while, it had started to eat away at me that I'm soon to be 30 and have never been with a woman. I felt an utter failure and led to depression. In light of the death of Robin Williams, something snapped inside me and made me realise life is too short and that I had to know what it was like.

It's an incredible feeling, being with a beautiful woman. And one I want to experience again and again.

I don't think the depression will ever lift permanently, but at least I no longer feel a failure.

Don't overdo it though - or that feeling will fade. Better yet, use the experience to your get over your obstacles or you'll end up simply being addicted to the escort experience.

[NoBrain2]

Love shyness is just a term that was conceived by an author who wanted to sell a book.

I think you're right, but if it makes him feel better about himself who are we to argue. Id consider myself in the same boat as him but i don't think the answer if in a book. Some of us are just beyond fixing lol

[Meursault]

I think you're right, but if it makes him feel better about himself who are we to argue. Id consider myself in the same boat as him but i don't think the answer if in a book. Some of us are just beyond fixing lol

lads (you and the op) im not attacking you alright, but if you beat yourself over your perceived failures, you dont stand a chance. The cycle just continues. Frustration after frustration, despair after despair. You have to give yourselves a chance.

im not attacking the op. Im trying to say, dont beat yourself up over the failure and as you stop doing that you become more confident and confidence is the key. But you have to be relaxed and have acceptance for yourself.

[celticden]

I was the same I just don't have the knack to attract women like my friends so I saw escorts instead of focusing on how shit I was ,I still dunno if its the right way to go about it seeing escorts ,seeing as I will never meet a girl its the only way to go I guess