think ill take the hint

[Petros]

I dont like that I get nervous and dumb on the phone lol unless its IT related lol

OK — pretend it is a server that needs rebooting

[Yamser]

OK — pretend it is a server that needs rebooting

I dont want to sound like a dork ill turn her off big time lol

[Petros]

I dont want to sound like a dork ill turn her off big time lol

I said pretend — not call her a server! You have revived 20 ladies — surely by this time you have realised that they don't bite (well, not on the phone anyway) You are not a newbie anymore — just be yourself and ring the lady who floats your boat