Lads, a question for you guys.....

[Petros]

My question is:

What makes someone to be that special for you?

has to do with looks, service provider, personality,sparkle.etc...

I really wish I could give you a definitive answer......


....but I really can't! There is one lady who I currently see more than anyone else. We seem to have clicked!

[Sexy Fernanda]

Personality and a genuine service. Being nice too.

What do you call genuine services?

be carful not to open the Pandora box.

[Meursault]

I love this area, please go ahead.

The human mind, is something that intricate me ....

Ok, this will be long:

Ok the single guys. They will be looking for sex, as in they are not tied down by girlfriends and wives, so more likely the woman they choose will be mirrored on their mother (provided the had a good relationship). So if the mother was dark haired, the escort they choose will probably be dark haired. If she was tall, the escort will be tall. This man will also deviate from time to time purely to taste something new. But the format will for the majority of the time be the same. I predict he will go for a woman who most resembles his mother and he may not be consciously aware of this feature.

The married men are a bit different. We take it that they married the woman who represents their mother and thus they yearn for something different. But what? Men despite being sex obsessed are smart with regards who they marry and they tend to marry a passive woman who wont cause stress. However because she is so passive and he has been married for so long, the mind demands something else, more passion and hence the have a mistress on the side. This mistress usually differs substantially in personality from his wife. She will be confident, sure and maybe dominant. hence he will go for a sophisticated woman who has an intense personality. It would sort of have its roots in the S$M scene, but just not as heavy. And if the men are narcissists, the whole control/no control is extremely arousing to them.

Also the single and married men could also go for a woman who they think resembles someone they know or work with. But i would make a calculated guess that the woman at work or who they know that they are attracted to, would bear similarities to their mother.

You will also get sex addicts as well who are after a bigger high each time. So it has to last longer and involve more danger and more strange things. They are unpredictable. They could go for anything or anyone.

There are so many variations. You could get a single/married man who is a latent homosexual who compensates by visiting escorts purely to convince himself that he is not gay.

I have only listed a small insight into the psychology of the clients. You could write a book on it and then you have TS/TV/GAY escorts as well, which would be another book if you will

[Kaz]

What do you call genuine services?

be carful not to open the Pandora box.

Some one that is interested in genuinely doing a good job and taking an interest basically. Not mechanical.

[Sexy Fernanda]

I really wish I could give you a definitive answer......


....but I really can't! There is one lady who I currently see more than anyone else. We seem to have clicked!

happy to hear that but you don't know why you guys has ''clicked'' .

I get it btw, nosey me, I know. .

[tom rambo]

yes fernanda we will have to meet some time xx

[Sexy Fernanda]

i have a list off ladies i will see yet,but there is some ladies i will see again and again

stil didn't answer my question.....

[dan8808]

The reason i first visit a girl is her looks which is an obvious one.
My regular girls are the ones i feel most comfortable being around.
Doesn't mean they were the best looking, provided the best service just that we clicked the best.

[Sexy Fernanda]

Ok, this will be long:

Ok the single guys. They will be looking for sex, as in they are not tied down by girlfriends and wives, so more likely the woman they choose will be mirrored on their mother (provided the had a good relationship). So if the mother was dark haired, the escort they choose will probably be dark haired. If she was tall, the escort will be tall. This man will also deviate from time to time purely to taste something new. But the format will for the majority of the time be the same. I predict he will go for a woman who most resembles his mother and he may not be consciously aware of this feature.

The married men are a bit different. We take it that they married the woman who represents their mother and thus they yearn for something different. But what? Men despite being sex obsessed are smart with regards who they marry and they tend to marry a passive woman who wont cause stress. However because she is so passive and he has been married for so long, the mind demands something else, more passion and hence the have a mistress on the side. This mistress usually differs substantially in personality from his wife. She will be confident, sure and maybe dominant. hence he will go for a sophisticated woman who has an intense personality. It would sort of have its roots in the S$M scene, but just not as heavy. And if the men are narcissists, the whole control/no control is extremely arousing to them.

Also the single and married men could also go for a woman who they think resembles someone they know or work with. But i would make a calculated guess that the woman at work or who they know that they are attracted to, would bear similarities to their mother.

You will also get sex addicts as well who are after a bigger high each time. So it has to last longer and involve more danger and more strange things. They are unpredictable. They could go for anything or anyone.

There are so many variations. You could get a single/married man who is a latent homosexual who compensates by visiting escorts purely to convince himself that he is not gay.

I have only listed a small insight into the psychology of the clients. You could write a book on it and then you have TS/TV/GAY escorts as well, which would be another book if you will

Thanks for your honest reply.

I thought the mother bit, would be more to do with marriage /girlfriend/wife not when comes to desire/escort, would you fell aroused by a woman who resemble your mother? I don't think so.

I know, I wouldn't fell attractive for a guy who resample my father, just seems weird.maybe that's just me.

You made sounds like everyone wants to have sex with their own mother or what resemble to then.

[Sexy Fernanda]

The reason i first visit a girl is her looks which is an obvious one.
My regular girls are the ones i feel most comfortable being around.
Doesn't mean they were the best looking, provided the best service just that we clicked the best.

I suppose that what mathers at the end of the day.